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they have the right to talk to other people however they want. I had met a guy on here maybe like 10 days ago, and we were chatting, im'ing talked once on the phone and thats it. He asked if I could hang out tomorrow I said no, I have plans with friends and my friends are important to me. He then asked if we could this week but I work til almost 7:30 every night and he lives an hour away. So I told him weeknights weren't good. Well, he sent me a message back saying that i wasn't trying very hard and that no wonder guys didn't care anymore. So I said thanks for your understanding. Bye. He said bye, thanks for nothing.
Why the hell do people think that simply because I met you here and chat with you a little bit that I OWE them something, anything?!!!!! I tried, but I told him upfront that I am really busy with my job and any free time I try to hang out with friends and do any errands. I want to meet someone but like I said I had only been chatting with him for like 10 days. It is such a turn off when guys are pushy to meet. Constantly hounding me to meet pretty much makes me not want to meet someone. |
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee?
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That's what happens if you even say hello to a guy....they think you are in love/lust with them...
 
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Hi Tankk.....
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? The guy would have been but it's never a waste to have good coffee!  
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Thats when you.....KICK THEM IN THE FACE AND BE LIKE 'MWAHAHHAHAHAH'
O_o no more caffine for me.... |
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I am totally glad I didn't waste my time. Plus lemme just add this. I am tired of when I do have an interest in a guy he expects me to come to him. What the hell happened to the good ole days when guy picked a girl up for a date. Or at least the guy could drive to my area and meet me.
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Sounds like a confident guy
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Hi Tankk.....
Hiya Lily! ...she's in love with me!
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I am totally glad I didn't waste my time. Plus lemme just add this. I am tired of when I do have an interest in a guy he expects me to come to him. What the hell happened to the good ole days when guy picked a girl up for a date. Or at least the guy could drive to my area and meet me. you want to get treated like a queen, don't waist your time with the court jesters.... |
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they have the right to talk to other people however they want. I had met a guy on here maybe like 10 days ago, and we were chatting, im'ing talked once on the phone and thats it. He asked if I could hang out tomorrow I said no, I have plans with friends and my friends are important to me. He then asked if we could this week but I work til almost 7:30 every night and he lives an hour away. So I told him weeknights weren't good. Well, he sent me a message back saying that i wasn't trying very hard and that no wonder guys didn't care anymore. So I said thanks for your understanding. Bye. He said bye, thanks for nothing. Why the hell do people think that simply because I met you here and chat with you a little bit that I OWE them something, anything?!!!!! I tried, but I told him upfront that I am really busy with my job and any free time I try to hang out with friends and do any errands. I want to meet someone but like I said I had only been chatting with him for like 10 days. It is such a turn off when guys are pushy to meet. Constantly hounding me to meet pretty much makes me not want to meet someone. That just sucks, I don't know why people are so rude. It really doesn't hurt to be nice to people |
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? exactly... online we can't always spot them ahead of time... so sometimes neediness and jerks come out over time or right away... better right away than after wasting your time. some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online. |
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I am totally glad I didn't waste my time. Plus lemme just add this. I am tired of when I do have an interest in a guy he expects me to come to him. What the hell happened to the good ole days when guy picked a girl up for a date. Or at least the guy could drive to my area and meet me. i met a guy that lives half an hour away from me, and everytime he wants to hang out he comes to me!!!!its sweet. i got lucky i guess |
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we do?
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? exactly... online we can't always spot them ahead of time... so sometimes neediness and jerks come out over time or right away... better right away than after wasting your time. some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online. 
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they have the right to talk to other people however they want. I had met a guy on here maybe like 10 days ago, and we were chatting, im'ing talked once on the phone and thats it. He asked if I could hang out tomorrow I said no, I have plans with friends and my friends are important to me. He then asked if we could this week but I work til almost 7:30 every night and he lives an hour away. So I told him weeknights weren't good. Well, he sent me a message back saying that i wasn't trying very hard and that no wonder guys didn't care anymore. So I said thanks for your understanding. Bye. He said bye, thanks for nothing. Why the hell do people think that simply because I met you here and chat with you a little bit that I OWE them something, anything?!!!!! I tried, but I told him upfront that I am really busy with my job and any free time I try to hang out with friends and do any errands. I want to meet someone but like I said I had only been chatting with him for like 10 days. It is such a turn off when guys are pushy to meet. Constantly hounding me to meet pretty much makes me not want to meet someone. I'm sorry I was just trying to get in your pants.
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? exactly... online we can't always spot them ahead of time... so sometimes neediness and jerks come out over time or right away... better right away than after wasting your time. some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online. |
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I am totally glad I didn't waste my time. Plus lemme just add this. I am tired of when I do have an interest in a guy he expects me to come to him. What the hell happened to the good ole days when guy picked a girl up for a date. Or at least the guy could drive to my area and meet me. He wasn't going to meet you halfway or meet you in your area? I would think with the time that you get off work, that would have been the considerate thing to do. I have been fortunate, I guess, that the people that I have met drove in to meet me. |
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some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online. Of course! If i see a pretty girl that i want to talk too out in public, my mind breaks and the best i can do is a whimpy low "hi" before i run like hell. On here its sooooooo much easier ^.^ |
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I haven't been back out in the dating world very long, but haha, its looking sad.
I just feel that if a guy initiates contact and wants to hang out with me then he should come to me. ?? Am I wrong? The last "internet blind date" I had we were to meet half way, he got lost and stood me up. |
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