Topic: Men...would you???
Thomas27's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:29 PM
Yes

msjkk2020's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:31 PM

I don't have kids yet, and I want to, but I wouldn't shun a woman because she wasn't capable of having kids. There are other options: Fostering, Adoption that kind of thing.

so I'd be open to a relationship with a woman who couldn't have kids.
Now the real question would be, does this woman want kids, but just can't have them or does she just not want children at all and had her tubes tied?
Thats the kind of difference maker that can kill a relationship in a hurry if both sides aren't on the same page.
If the woman just didn't want to have a family, I'd have to move on, because that doesn't fit with who I want to be before I'm old and grey.


I have children, 2 grown and one at home...I would date someone with kids of their own, but because of a close call with cervical cancer, I had major surgery at a very young age, so not able any more.

Dannnnny's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:31 PM
My answer is what does this have to do with you as a person! I would love to date a woman who is confident in herself and is honest sincere. Life is short and the only thing certain in life is death so cheer up i would definitly date you whether you were capable or not to have kids.....

duckman2921's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:32 PM
yea i would.....

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:33 PM
Dating a woman who wouldn't be able to bear me children wouldn't bother me a bit.

no photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:36 PM

Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown


Everything else being equal, I would prefer it that way. I have no interest in being a parent, or dating one. This would eliminate the whole procreation issue as a potential problem down the road.




no photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:44 PM
It wouldn't bother me abit. Kids are fun but, not a requirement.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:47 PM
Wow! Im impressed, but I find it hard that no one sees it as a deal breaker. Ive had guys tell me I wasnt dateable because I mentioned I can not have anymore kids.

mach25's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:49 PM

Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right?

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:50 PM
Wow Twilight you would be perfect I cant have anymore and i feel the same way

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:54 PM


Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right?


I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:54 PM

Wow Twilight you would be perfect I cant have anymore and i feel the same way


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mach25's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:55 PM



Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right?


I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2.


'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:56 PM
hey were only 7 hrs away

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:56 PM




Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right?


I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2.


'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol


Wow...what happened to dating?laugh blushing

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:57 PM




Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right?


I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2.


'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol
yes sir

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:57 PM

hey were only 7 hrs away


cool beans...so you too live in the twilightzone?

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:58 PM





Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right?


I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2.


'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol
yes sir


You're the one with the gun!

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:58 PM
yes Iowa is definatly the twilight zone too So what are you looking for beside a guy that can except that

difference2me's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:58 PM
What a great question!!! But I have always viewed it as the opposite. I don't want anymore kids and have always thought what if SHE doese? Alot of men out there are looking for a relationship that results into a family. And a family doese not mean 6 kids! It means atleast two people working together to build a future for each other.