Personally I dont share well, so for me it would be over immediately. jmo

It would definately be over..I think I could forgive but never forget and there would always be that trust issue. You have to have trust in a relationship or there is no relationship.

But on the other hand one of my bestfriends is married and her husband cheated on her with a neighbor and she forgave him and they stayed together so I guess it all depends on the person. Me personally I would never be able to stay with a person who cheated on me.

depends on the parameters of the relationship..........It's not always over it comes down to what you feel you can live with. There is give and take in every realtionship and for some this is the give.....

It would be over immediately...Been though it once, never again.

...something that big changes who you both are, sometimes it/people can overcome those changes sometimes the trust being one of those just cant be mended...each situation is unique and requires its own applications.....

~wicked~

it would be over for me because i could never trust them again..

yea id say its over hun if some guy cheated on me then id
kick his ass in

defintely OVER!!!
trust would be completly broken and beyond repair...

I had a boyfriend who openly made it apparent that he was cheating and he brought his date into the nightclub at the Ramada Inn where I was working. Why would he do this?

I guess to see if he could get a reaction from me. I was shocked, but I did not react. I guess I was too stunned. He had insisted that I give up all my dating friends for him and now he was flaunting another girl in front of me. This really pissed me off.

Did I get mad? Well, yes, but I got even. I just called up some of my old boyfriends and resumed dating. I did not break it off from him I just resumed dating others. He was no longer exclusive.

I guess he thought he could have many girlfriends but he did not want his girl friends to date others. (He was a real pig.) He was actually shocked to find out that I was dating others. I told him that if he was going to do it, then so was I.

JB

P.S. He really did hurt me, because I thought I was in love with him, but I never let him know how much he hurt me.

I forgave my (now) ex-husband for cheating, but I never forgot only to have him cheat again.... no 2nd chances.... I pretty much believe the once a cheater always a cheater....

Once a cheater ,always a cheater

DONE!!!!!

Notice I'm seperated....hmmmm wonder why.

stick a fork in it, cuz' it's done. finished. kaput. deader than a doornail. floating face down in the Mississippi River.

It's possible, but very rare.

what are the circumstances that led to the cheating? Were there reconsilable differnces that led to somebody to stray? Was it a one night affair or a long standing "lunch time" quicky? How much time was invested in the relationship prior to the cheating? These are questions I would have answered first before I can answer. Has the physical attraction faded, but are still in love with the wit and charm? Is he/she holding on the count of a grudge? So, I would have to say no, the relationship is not over.

It is over.

Staying together just delays the inevitable!

You can forgive but you can never forget!

If they cheat once will they cheat again? you really don't know. As far as staying with them, it depends on wither you can deal with it inside your own self

Cheating is a no-no, and I have lived through it, will not do it again. Once it happens the trust is gone