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Topic: Is it over?
Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 04/10/08 12:26 AM
Is a relationship over if someone cheats on their partner? Can they truly be forgiven and continue in the relationship, or are they just delaying the inevitable? Personal, and in general responses welcomed I couldnt go on with someone who cheated!!! You can say you forgive but you cant forget and I think it would just eat at me until I would inevitabley have to leave.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 04/10/08 12:27 AM Edited by OrangeCat on Thu 04/10/08 12:27 AM
I been through it to much,I dont give second chances,they should not of messd up the first time

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 04/10/08 12:27 AM
people can change i had my dauters mother cheat on me with a roomate and now were best friends just not lovers But how did she change?

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Thu 04/10/08 12:32 AM
shes off of drugs, shes a rn,she is a comunity service

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 04/10/08 12:33 AM
shes off of drugs, shes a rn,she is a comunity service Is that what made her cheat? those other things?

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 04/10/08 12:33 AM
If someone Cheats on me it would be so OVER it would be like they didn't even exist. I have always told my Honey that Cheating wasn't grounds for DIVORCE but it was grounds for HOMICIDE so make sure it is worth it.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Thu 04/10/08 12:39 AM
shes off of drugs, shes a rn,she is a comunity service Is that what made her cheat? those other things? drugs and loney and we were broke up but she slept with him after i moved back in and i caught them but that was 20 years ago its all good now

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 04/10/08 12:40 AM
I forgave and forgot only to have a repeat performance. Jaded now.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 04/10/08 12:40 AM
shes off of drugs, shes a rn,she is a comunity service Is that what made her cheat? those other things? drugs and loney and we were broke up but she slept with him after i moved back in and i caught them but that was 20 years ago its all good now Well sorry to hear that... glad you're friends now..

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 04/10/08 12:41 AM
I forgave and forgot only to have a repeat performance. Jaded now. ....at least I can say I loved unconditionally. Once.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 04/10/08 12:43 AM
I forgave and forgot only to have a repeat performance. Jaded now. ....at least I can say I loved unconditionally. Once. Wouldn't it be nice to do it again...

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Thu 04/10/08 02:46 AM
Cheating is a no-no Once it hapens there is no turning back and the trust is gone from the relationship. Had it happen and it sn't pretty

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Thu 04/10/08 02:50 AM
It's over No trust no relationship

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Thu 04/10/08 03:06 AM
hhmmm... let me tell you a story... a man once cheats on his wife, while the wife is away looking for a job, he then took advantage of the situation to fool around and the worst thing is: he brings the kids along and the kids saw how sweet they are. The kids then told their Mom when she went back that Daddy says they have a new Mommy.... NOW, if you are the wife: Would you stick around?

brimstone Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 622	Thu 04/10/08 06:20 AM
OVER....Immediately. No worse betrayal for me than to be cheated on...

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 04/10/08 06:22 AM
i don't know...Ask Hillary Clinton???

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Thu 04/10/08 06:23 AM
forgive and forget have only one thing in common. they both start with the letter"F"

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 04/10/08 06:23 AM


soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Thu 04/10/08 06:26 AM
well I would kind of figure that it would just give me a free pass to do it when the oppurtunity arose... so if you ended it there goes your free pass

Salemite Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 170	Thu 04/10/08 07:55 AM
Is a relationship over if someone cheats on their partner? Can they truly be forgiven and continue in the relationship, or are they just delaying the inevitable? Personal, and in general responses welcomed Gone. See ya.