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Topic: Do you want to fall in love?
Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Thu 04/10/08 06:45 PM
the automatic answer is not always yes, neither to be a player. a good answer would be that a man and a woman should get to know each other very good before falling in love. That of course sounds like a pat answer but it has no basis in the real world as for the "falling in love" part. True sustaining love does comes when you "get to know each other" and if you are a good match.... But that rarely happens in real life, as we know. and.. "Falling in Love" is simply chemistry and it blinds you to the true nature of the person you are 'obsessed' with. It is not love. It is like being hypnotized. It will render you blind and helpless. This effect is only temporary. It is like a temporary drug or a high. It is not real love. It is like temporary insanity. Remember when Tom Cruise fell in love? He radiated with this high...all over the media, everywhere he went... he could not stop smiling. (Look how long that lasted. Not long.) I don't ever want to "fall in Love" again. It will arrest all reason and the ability to make smart decisions. Now falling in lust... I can handle that. Bring that on...

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 04/10/08 06:53 PM
When love finds me it finds me, i wont run I'm pretty sure IT will find you

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Thu 04/10/08 06:55 PM
I wish it would find me

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Thu 04/10/08 06:56 PM
as long as it isnt a very far fall

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Thu 04/10/08 06:57 PM
When love finds me it finds me, i wont run I'm pretty sure IT will find you one day it will find both of us my friend

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 04/10/08 06:58 PM
Well I did but we are like Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson used to be ............. sigh Too much water under the bridge on this one

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 04/10/08 06:59 PM
When love finds me it finds me, i wont run I'm pretty sure IT will find you one day it will find both of us my friend

lilredjackie90 Joined Fri 04/04/08 Posts: 47	Thu 04/10/08 09:48 PM
It sound silly and the automatic answer is yes from everyone, but I have a couple of guy friends that prefer to be players, and nothing deeper then that, I myself want to fall in love agian. i DO UNDERstand why guys wanna be players some just like to mess around but others rather not take the chance of getting hurt.. but its not right cause in the end they are hurting others which is very selfish. ME i wanna fall in love but i hate the pain that comes with it :(

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 04/10/08 10:38 PM
Ive been in love....and want it again....but most importantly I want someone who can stay in love. amen

Guyonline123 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 101	Thu 04/10/08 10:40 PM
I Don't think I'd mind it if I fell in love with a nice girl.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 04/10/08 10:52 PM
I have always wodered why they call it falling in love because when you love someone it feels more like something pleasant, not a fall that usually means out of control then hitting and unyeilding surface. Would think floating or takeing wings would make more sense. Love kind of lifts you up usully.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Thu 04/10/08 11:04 PM
Hell No. It's a slimey pit I don't think I have the strength to climb out of again.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 04/10/08 11:05 PM
Wow!!! sounds like everyone is jaded!!! wtf you doing on a dating site then?

Guyonline123 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 101	Thu 04/10/08 11:12 PM
I have always wodered why they call it falling in love because when you love someone it feels more like something pleasant, not a fall that usually means out of control then hitting and unyeilding surface. Would think floating or takeing wings would make more sense. Love kind of lifts you up usully. I think it is because generally you fall into it, you are in it before you realize it, thus you fell into it was knocked unconscious and awoke not knowing where you were only that you were a love slave..... of course love is hardly that complicated........sometimes

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Fri 04/11/08 12:45 AM
Everyone wants to fall in love. When it happens, it is a wonderful feeling. You can't control it, it just happens

jenleah32 Joined Sat 09/22/07 Posts: 4577	Fri 04/11/08 12:49 AM
Everyone wants to fall in love. When it happens, it is a wonderful feeling. You can't control it, it just happens I agree with my girl here!! ((((((BG)))))) How are you love?? How are things?? Love you big whole bunchess!!

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Fri 04/11/08 12:57 AM Edited by bad_girl on Fri 04/11/08 12:57 AM
Hi doll I am okay, in a confused state this morning but I will muddle my way through it. How are you doing? I love you bunches too Everyone wants to fall in love. When it happens, it is a wonderful feeling. You can't control it, it just happens I agree with my girl here!! ((((((BG)))))) How are you love?? How are things?? Love you big whole bunchess!!

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Fri 04/11/08 01:13 AM
Wow!!! sounds like everyone is jaded!!! wtf you doing on a dating site then? Stalking you of course.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 04/11/08 01:16 AM
wileyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Fri 04/11/08 01:17 AM
wileyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! ((gypsy)) good morning and wiley is a riot isn't he