That of course sounds like a pat answer but it has no basis in the real world as for the "falling in love" part.

True sustaining love does comes when you "get to know each other" and if you are a good match.... But that rarely happens in real life, as we know.

and..

"Falling in Love" is simply chemistry and it blinds you to the true nature of the person you are 'obsessed' with. It is not love. It is like being hypnotized. It will render you blind and helpless. This effect is only temporary. It is like a temporary drug or a high. It is not real love. It is like temporary insanity.

Remember when Tom Cruise fell in love? He radiated with this high...all over the media, everywhere he went... he could not stop smiling. (Look how long that lasted. Not long.)

I don't ever want to "fall in Love" again. It will arrest all reason and the ability to make smart decisions.

Now falling in lust... I can handle that. Bring that on...

I'm pretty sure IT will find you

I wish it would find me

as long as it isnt a very far fall

one day it will find both of us my friend

Well I did but we are like Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson used to be ............. *sigh* Too much water under the bridge on this one

i DO UNDERstand why guys wanna be players some just like to mess around but others rather not take the chance of getting hurt.. but its not right cause in the end they are hurting others which is very selfish.


ME i wanna fall in love but i hate the pain that comes with it :(

amen

I Don't think I'd mind it if I fell in love with a nice girl.

I have always wodered why they call it falling in love because when you love someone it feels more like something pleasant, not a fall that usually means out of control then hitting and unyeilding surface. Would think floating or takeing wings would make more sense. Love kind of lifts you up usully.

Hell No. It's a slimey pit I don't think I have the strength to climb out of again.

Wow!!! sounds like everyone is jaded!!! wtf you doing on a dating site then?

I think it is because generally you fall into it, you are in it before you realize it, thus you fell into it was knocked unconscious and awoke not knowing where you were only that you were a love slave.....

of course love is hardly that complicated........sometimes

Everyone wants to fall in love.

When it happens, it is a wonderful feeling. You can't control it, it just happens

I agree with my girl here!! ((((((BG)))))) How are you love?? How are things?? Love you big whole bunchess!!

Hi doll I am okay, in a confused state this morning but I will muddle my way through it. How are you doing? I love you bunches too

Stalking you of course.

wileyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!

((gypsy)) good morning and wiley is a riot isn't he