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Topic: 8 TEEN ARRESTED VIDEOTAPING BEATDOWN
DebbieJT's photo
Fri 04/11/08 04:57 AM
my parents knew what i was up to because i respected them enough to let them know what, where and why..but i also knew if i did go out and do something wrong i was in troube big trouble..kids havent got that anymore..my nine year old son turned round to me the other day and said i couldnt do anything to him or he would call the police..i just looked at him , smiled and said you know where the phone is...but remember you have more to loose..

Def03's photo
Fri 04/11/08 04:57 AM





WHAT GETS ME ABOUT ALL OF THIS, IS THAT THE PARENTS OF THE KIDS WHO DID THIS, ARE MORE OUTRAGED ABOUT THE COMMUNITY'S REACTION TO ALL OF THIS, INSTEAD OF BEING OUTRAGED ABOUT WHAT THEIR KIDS DID. PERSONALLY, I HOPE THEY LOCK THEM UP FOR A LONG TIME, THE KIDS, AND THE PARENTS. THESE PARENTS NEED TO BE HELD RESPONSIBLE TOO, FOR THE ACTIONS OF THEIR CHILDREN.

Not trying to defend the parents. Yes parents have a lot to do with their kids upbringing. To say its the soley the parents fault is almost unfair. Have you ever watched the movie Jack *@s? If not; how many people do you know that have watched it. Or how many times have youve heard a conversation about it. This poop is on everyday tv. Tv has influence generations of kids and households. Just a thought.When did it become ok to watch someone hurt themselves? My kids never watch this stuff, but I cant control peer presure or what other kids watch.



I WAS NOT SAYING THAT IT WAS SOLELY THE PARENTS FAULT, JUST THAT THEY NEED TO BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR THIER KIDS ACTIONS TOO. IF THEY WERE KEEPING BETTER TABS ON THEIR CHILDREN, THIS MAY NOT HAVE HAPPENED.

Yeah true, but how many times did you sneek out and never got caught. I was a pretty sneeky kid. Thats the ONLY reason my kids dont get an inch. Maybe these parents were ignorant just like my mom. My mom is great but she was oblivious. Granted I never did anything to break laws. If I did, I wouldnt be able to blame her. She was strick! We just dont know the whole story.



IN ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION, I NEVER DID SNEAK OUT. I WAS BORN IN THE 50'S AND GREW UP IN THE 60'S & 70'S, MY PARENTS KEPT A VERY CLOSE EYE ON US. PLUS WE LIVED ON A 200 ACRE FARM, WHERE COULD WE GO??????


lol!laugh Yeah that would put a stop to sneeking out. lol I Know I that would have stopped me. lol Sneeking out would have definetly lost its appeal. You have a great day!

franshade's photo
Fri 04/11/08 05:17 AM
The 8 face charges of battery and kidnapping which can get them life in prison and 3 have the additional chg of tampering with a witness.


daniel48706's photo
Sun 04/20/08 02:17 PM
I dont think the teens shuld get life in prison, as it is still; possible for them to learn from this and become respectable citizens, however they DO need to be charged and sentenced heavily. How old was the adult sentry again?
If by adult, he was only 18 or 19 years old, then I say no more than 20 years in prison, as again he is young enough to learn and change his ways.
However, they definitely need to be punished, one and all, and they need to do something to help the girl recover, along with her family.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 04/20/08 11:57 PM
it's not solely the parents faults but they should have stepped up and been parents to begin with. the parents share responsiblity. the kids should be tried as adults. if they are old enough to prepare and plan this...then they are aware of what they did. it's a pathetic world when people can't own up to what they do. i respected my mom enough to watch what i did. yes i got in some minor trouble but i was more worried about disappointing my mom than the actual punishment. my son is the same way. he's 17 and would defend someone before ever starting anything

franshade's photo
Mon 04/21/08 06:28 AM

it's not solely the parents faults but they should have stepped up and been parents to begin with. the parents share responsiblity. the kids should be tried as adults. if they are old enough to prepare and plan this...then they are aware of what they did. it's a pathetic world when people can't own up to what they do. i respected my mom enough to watch what i did. yes i got in some minor trouble but i was more worried about disappointing my mom than the actual punishment. my son is the same way. he's 17 and would defend someone before ever starting anything


thats because you have instilled certain values in your son (kudos) my 22 yr old is the same way. Makes decisions based on whats best for her, what is best for the situation and of course how I would react is in her mind as well.

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daniel48706's photo
Tue 04/22/08 06:00 PM
lmao, I am 33 years old, and to this day if I ever go to jail, you can damn well bet that my mother would be last to find out, and trhen I would be begging the cops to not let her in to see me, as I would be a dead man very shortly thereafter :wink:

Chazster's photo
Tue 04/22/08 09:40 PM
I hope these kids get whats coming to them. That was just horrible.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 04/22/08 10:43 PM
i still wonder where the parents were the whole time and what )if any) responsiblity they are taken in this.

franshade's photo
Wed 04/23/08 05:22 AM

lmao, I am 33 years old, and to this day if I ever go to jail, you can damn well bet that my mother would be last to find out, and trhen I would be begging the cops to not let her in to see me, as I would be a dead man very shortly thereafter :wink:


see I'm with you, but nowadays some kids just dont care. They have this oh well type of attitude that nothing is taken seriously.

franshade's photo
Wed 04/23/08 05:24 AM

i still wonder where the parents were the whole time and what )if any) responsiblity they are taken in this.


YR, supposedly the girl that lives there had it planned wait until her guardian left the house, invite the girl and whip her a$$ with 5 others and 2 look outs.

I put some blame on the parents on how they raised and instilled values (or the lack thereof) onto their kids.

daniel48706's photo
Wed 04/23/08 05:32 AM
The problem with punishing the parents, folks, is this is a free country. Yes that means that it is not a crime to fail to raise your kids with the same mroals as everyone else. Not only that, but it is free for someone to choose to not conform to societies laws and such. And you can NOT blame, or punish perswon a, because their offspring decided their right to choose for themselves. Even if their choice is as atrocious as this was.
The kids involved were all more than old enough to make that choice themselves (althuogh I still think they are young enough to be rehabilitated without having to serve life with no parole), and thus are old enough to live with the consequences.
Now, one thing that we can ALL do to help prevent this tragedy from reoccuring, is as parents, start monitoring what our children watch on tv, what they are exposed to as young children when they do NOT know any better.
There are all kinds of other things we can do, both as parents and as a nation or community to help our children turn inot productive model citizens, this is just one example.

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