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Was supposed to have met someone this evening but balked as it did not feel right. Too much going on in my life and SO much pressure for the meet without regard of my needs at the moment. Am I being too picky? Should I have met him anyway...in spite of things coming up in my life?
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You should always do what works for "you"
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Your gut always knows, specially in these kind of cases...
Rather you did it the right way or the wrong way you did the right thing...... |
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When your ready, you will know
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It might have cheered you up to have the company though...never know.
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Thank you for the re-assurance...I just felt it was not right with all that HE had planned and suspected HIS anticipaction of more than I was willing to contibute for the first meet.
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Was supposed to have met someone this evening but balked as it did not feel right. Too much going on in my life and SO much pressure for the meet without regard of my needs at the moment. Am I being too picky? Should I have met him anyway...in spite of things coming up in my life? Why would you meet someone you aren't interested in, who's pressuring you at a time when you can't deal with meeting him? |
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Edited by
whatdoyaknow
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Sat 04/05/08 07:39 PM
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Was supposed to have met someone this evening but balked as it did not feel right. Too much going on in my life and SO much pressure for the meet without regard of my needs at the moment. Am I being too picky? Should I have met him anyway...in spite of things coming up in my life? ALWAYS go with the gut feeling. Specially if he was pressuring you. Hope you called to cancel though :D |
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Was supposed to have met someone this evening but balked as it did not feel right. Too much going on in my life and SO much pressure for the meet without regard of my needs at the moment. Am I being too picky? Should I have met him anyway...in spite of things coming up in my life? But then there's a flip side 2 this coin.U could of seized the moment & had a nice night out & relaxed.This would of been benificial 2 U seeing U have all these worries & stress built up.(jmo)Godspeed!Cy
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well for me i always feele presure to have sex!! i cant go on the first date! and not pressured to have sex! but i am still a virgin ! it is like all guys want is to have sex! they do not want to have a nice relationship with a girl these days!
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I just want an intimate encounter but I keep getting pressured into relationships 
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sounds like you did the right thing
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If it doesn't feel right then it just doesn't feel right. When it feels right then you won't have this problem.
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Your gut always knows, specially in these kind of cases... Rather you did it the right way or the wrong way you did the right thing...... i agree- |
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I did indeed return the call and he had a "room reserved', hence, the apprehension and the decision to not meet. I just thought that expectations were FAR beyond the inicial meet and chose NOT to 'go there' as a booty call was not the directive. So now I am too much a prude?
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I did indeed return the call and he had a "room reserved', hence, the apprehension and the decision to not meet. I just thought that expectations were FAR beyond the inicial meet and chose NOT to 'go there' as a booty call was not the directive. So now I am too much a prude? A prude according to whom, the overzealous idiot pressuring you with unrealistic expectations? I'd like to submit that his opinion is worth less than you paid for it. |
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Just being true to yourself. You don't have to guilt trip yourelf.
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