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flnative32750 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 81	Fri 04/04/08 05:02 PM
UMMMMMM............EXIT STAGE LEFT!!!!!!!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 05:02 PM
I am not sure this is lying or just not telling you until you need to know. Until you get really serious with a person, their past is really none of your business. I agree with you for the most part. Its not like I go around telling my life history to people but whether or not you are the gender I assume you are, is pretty friggin important to me. Oh Jill, you're just so shallow! I know right. You present yourself as a straight man and thats what I expect you to be... picky picky although - I never dated a guy who said, hey, I am a straight man. I just always sort of assumed it. What if they never told you they were male, and you just assumed it? Is that a lie by ommission?

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Fri 04/04/08 05:03 PM
I know right. You present yourself as a straight man and thats what I expect you to be... picky picky Well I've always been a straight man and don't plan on changing anytime soon or in the distant future.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/04/08 05:03 PM
I am not sure this is lying or just not telling you until you need to know. Until you get really serious with a person, their past is really none of your business. I agree with you for the most part. Its not like I go around telling my life history to people but whether or not you are the gender I assume you are, is pretty friggin important to me. Oh Jill, you're just so shallow! I know right. You present yourself as a straight man and thats what I expect you to be... picky picky although - I never dated a guy who said, hey, I am a straight man. I just always sort of assumed it. What if they never told you they were male, and you just assumed it? Is that a lie by ommission? uuummmmm I would find out eventually

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/04/08 05:04 PM
I know right. You present yourself as a straight man and thats what I expect you to be... picky picky Well I've always been a straight man and don't plan on changing anytime soon or in the distant future. oh come wiley... u know deep down you're really a lesbian

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Fri 04/04/08 05:05 PM
I know right. You present yourself as a straight man and thats what I expect you to be... picky picky Well I've always been a straight man and don't plan on changing anytime soon or in the distant future. oh come wiley... u know deep down you're really a lesbian Well that may be true. I do love the women.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/04/08 05:07 PM
I know right. You present yourself as a straight man and thats what I expect you to be... picky picky Well I've always been a straight man and don't plan on changing anytime soon or in the distant future. oh come wiley... u know deep down you're really a lesbian Well that may be true. I do love the women. hehe glad to hear it

solestria Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 204	Sat 04/05/08 06:57 PM
I would be upset at not having been told earlier. If I were attracted to them, it wouldn't matter to me if they were born a different sex, but I would be upset at the lie by omission (especially since I'm interested in gender theory, and it doesn't take much to figure out that it wouldn't bother me).

Muddysneakers77 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 1530	Sat 04/05/08 07:34 PM
id freak