i been going out with a girl for six months going good as i thought next thing i get a text wer not made for each other move on hmm kinda weird now she wont have any thing todo with me a text no talkin on the phone or face to face wow is that weird

pretty weird indeed

girls can be cruel :/

Dang man....thanks for opening up the thread cause I had a similar experience and wanted to say something...

I don't get some of the people on here at all. Is it me?

I was talking with this lady for a while...good conversation. We seemed to think of each other often right...she starts pushing for a face to face...

I agree to meet her for dinner...no show. She has sent a couple of texts since then but basically...poof.

What's the friggin' deal?

sounds like she has serious head game issues..

Boo silnt

....not weird, just the new way rude people break off things...new or old, serious or casual...its reaching epidemic levels...I'm sorry to say I think this cowards way out is here to stay....product/back-lash of the new information age...just a less information type of break up...sorry you had a "hit-n-run" like that (been there)...after 6 months you/anyone deserved more....


~wicked~

i wish i could meet a normal guy and i would be happy..lol

I was just emailing a guy as well and out of now where he dissapears......

Fast forward, he sent me an email yesterday and he is dating someone and was dating them when we were emailing back and forth....

Go figure.......

I agree......

i know..i take her to mcdonalds, get her a happy meal, let her keep the toy and she wiggs out..what is the deal?

hey (((kojac))) honey

thats plain crappy of her and it's a good thing you no longer have this girl in your life... obviously she has no character. Good riddens.
Anyone that dates someone for 6 months should not think its ok to break up via text message and just never say anything else and not give you a chance to speak. It's just wrong and it's hurtful

don't we all

I've had plenty of those experiences. Girls who seem all into me, then in a split second pull a 180 and run. I usually call it "flaking out".

Anyway, I've noticed over the years that many women do it because they have issues. Some guy or guys hurt them in the past, and when something comes along that's too good to be true in their eyes, they run from it. Had one friend tell me that these women think I'll quickly dump them, because they see themselves as crap, and figure I will eventually see them as that.

Other women just "flaked out" mostly because a BBD (Bigger Better Deal) came along and they wanted to be with said guy. Mostly it's the ex-boyfriend who suddenly comes calling and she still hasn't let him go, so she'll try again in a heartbeat. Other times they meet a guy they find hotter and such...so they want to break things off and hook up with him.

I think the only time this behavior bothers me is when it's a real sudden 180, like we've been making out passionately or even sleeping together, she's all into me, then the next day she is totally the opposite. Worse are the ones who just "vanish". They suddenly never pick up the phone when you call, and never call you back when you leave voicemails.

I'm sure men do it to women as well. Such is life.

women like that makes it seriously hard for us women that is real to find anyone decent.

who is it so, the rest of us can watch out for him?

men do it as well as women and in some cases more..