Topic: becoming a first time mom...
SQUIDLOVERGIRL85's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:51 AM
i just found out that i am pregnant and i am going to have a step daughter and i am so in a daze i dont know what to do...i am so confused...i am going crazy cant sleep or eat...

ANY HELP??????

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:52 AM
Enjoy it!!! children are gifts

pennyg281's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:54 AM
Edited by pennyg281 on Fri 04/04/08 09:54 AM

Take a deep breath honey
The baby won't be hear for 9 months, that'll give you plenty of time to get to know your step daughter, and perpare for the baby. Good Luck, my prayers are with youflowerforyou

franshade's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:54 AM
congratulations!!!!

just relax
take care of yourself
get plenty of rest
eat well
exercise

and enjoy life

congratulations flowerforyou flowerforyou

miksit29's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:56 AM
well you should eat and sleep, both important to that baby. Take it day by day! Enjoy what you have been given, some of us will never have their own children. It is a gift!!!

brimstone's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:57 AM
What? I didn't know you could give birth to a step child? huh

I must have missed something...but nonetheless....

CONGRATS on the step child pregnancy drinker drinker drinker

Twitch's photo
Fri 04/04/08 10:00 AM
Congrats and just relax flowerforyou

wickedlluccy's photo
Fri 04/04/08 10:05 AM
Edited by wickedlluccy on Fri 04/04/08 10:06 AM

What? I didn't know you could give birth to a step child? huh

I must have missed something...but nonetheless....

CONGRATS on the step child pregnancy drinker drinker drinker




....laugh laugh laugh ...your so bad brimstone...lol...





...but seriously...I've been a mom (single mom) for 31 yrs...include your stepdaughter as much as she will let you....when my #2 son was born...we had a welcome home party for the new baby, then 2 days later we had a welcome home party for my 10 yr old son (from summer camp) I always made him understand his role (even though a 1/2 bro) was just as important as mine....children understand by example.....make her your second (cant do it w/o you) pair of hands...you will instill a sense of loyalty to the baby in her that way instead of jealousy....and by the way CONGRATS TOO !!!flowerforyou

Jillybean31's photo
Fri 04/04/08 10:06 AM
I say congratulations! Every child is a blessing, even if the situation is not ideal. I hope things go well with you and you find joy somewhere within your circumstance. It's always there if you want to find it. flowerforyou

caamken's photo
Fri 04/04/08 10:16 AM
Well congratulation

remember it takes two to make a baby and two to take care of of a child. So don't worry I am sure you have found a great partner reley on his experience to help you through this time. It will all be good

SQUIDLOVERGIRL85's photo
Fri 04/04/08 10:27 AM
thank u all for ur input i feel alittle better already...me and will are very happy to have another addition to the family but i am still alittle scared....indifferent ...so i just wanted to say thank u....

these r for u

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