Hey here we go...

Let's compile a list of things we have seen women on the site suggest NOT saying in introductory e-mails!
Maybe we can help out some newbies - and ourselves. Or it could just turn into a list of rediculousness. ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN! Exciting huh?

I'll kick things off with a few:

DO NOT -
Just say hi.
Say they are cute.
Say they have a nice smile.
Say they are hot.
Ask for phone numbers.
Say "Hey, whats up ur hawt." when they specifically ask not to say that exact phrase in their profile - this one really doesn't go over well.
Say you love them, or that you are soul mates.
Mention flying/moving to where they live.

OK, now it's your turn!

do NOT message hey baby or ask for my number in the first conversation

This one isnt so much as what not to say but as what not to do. If a girl doesn't answer your email back (especially after you have been supremely perverted) don't send her a dozen more asking her to reply back within 5 minutes. You just might get blocked!

And here I was wondering why they never respond to my mails.

Smarty pants! You have never emailed!

I don't know what to say anymore.

no one ever responds to my emails

That's cuzza you blocked me!

You can start by saying hi.... ha ha ha ha ha.

"You look like a fine piece of ass"
prolly wouldn't be recommended.

Well, I agree with you that all of those are pretty certain to generate a negative reaction.

On the other hand -- I'm a professional writer with 7 years of training in psychology. I am certainly capable of writing an e-mail which is entertaining and inoffensive. Doesn't matter how good it is, though -- I have NEVER gotten a reply here when I have sent a first e-mail.

I exchange e-mails with a lot of people on this site, and no one has ever accused me of writing anything offensive or inappropriate in any of them. So I really don't think the issue is in what I was writing, back in the days when I was still sending first e-mails.

although I am, yes, this is highly discouraged....