Topic: What not to say!
ajartfuldodger's photo
Thu 04/03/08 03:54 PM
Hey here we go...

Let's compile a list of things we have seen women on the site suggest NOT saying in introductory e-mails!
Maybe we can help out some newbies - and ourselves. Or it could just turn into a list of rediculousness. ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN! Exciting huh?happy laugh

I'll kick things off with a few:

DO NOT -
Just say hi.noway
Say they are cute.mad
Say they have a nice smile.:angry:
Say they are hot.explode
Ask for phone numbers.noway
Say "Hey, whats up ur hawt." when they specifically ask not to say that exact phrase in their profile - this one really doesn't go over well.laugh
Say you love them, or that you are soul mates.sick
Mention flying/moving to where they live.noway

OK, now it's your turn!

fall2grace's photo
Thu 04/03/08 03:56 PM
do NOT message hey baby or ask for my number in the first conversation

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Thu 04/03/08 03:57 PM

Hey here we go...

Let's compile a list of things we have seen women on the site suggest NOT saying in introductory e-mails!
Maybe we can help out some newbies - and ourselves. Or it could just turn into a list of rediculousness. ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN! Exciting huh?happy laugh

I'll kick things off with a few:

DO NOT -
Just say hi.noway
Say they are cute.mad
Say they have a nice smile.:angry:
Say they are hot.explode
Ask for phone numbers.noway
Say "Hey, whats up ur hawt." when they specifically ask not to say that exact phrase in their profile - this one really doesn't go over well.laugh
Say you love them, or that you are soul mates.sick
Mention flying/moving to where they live.noway

OK, now it's your turn!


This one isnt so much as what not to say but as what not to do. If a girl doesn't answer your email back (especially after you have been supremely perverted) don't send her a dozen more asking her to reply back within 5 minutes. You just might get blocked!

Totage's photo
Thu 04/03/08 03:57 PM
And here I was wondering why they never respond to my mails.noway

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Thu 04/03/08 05:45 PM

And here I was wondering why they never respond to my mails.noway

Smarty pants! You have never emailed!

Totage's photo
Thu 04/03/08 05:46 PM


And here I was wondering why they never respond to my mails.noway

Smarty pants! You have never emailed!


I don't know what to say anymore. :tongue:

chris1979's photo
Thu 04/03/08 05:50 PM
no one ever responds to my emailssad

no photo
Thu 04/03/08 05:52 PM

no one ever responds to my emailssad


That's cuzza you blocked me!:cry:

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Fri 04/04/08 02:54 AM



And here I was wondering why they never respond to my mails.noway

Smarty pants! You have never emailed!


I don't know what to say anymore. :tongue:


You can start by saying hi.... ha ha ha ha ha.

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 04/04/08 02:58 AM
"You look like a fine piece of ass"
prolly wouldn't be recommended.

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:39 AM

Hey here we go...

Let's compile a list of things we have seen women on the site suggest NOT saying in introductory e-mails!
Maybe we can help out some newbies - and ourselves. Or it could just turn into a list of rediculousness. ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN! Exciting huh?happy laugh

I'll kick things off with a few:

DO NOT -
Just say hi.noway
Say they are cute.mad
Say they have a nice smile.:angry:
Say they are hot.explode
Ask for phone numbers.noway
Say "Hey, whats up ur hawt." when they specifically ask not to say that exact phrase in their profile - this one really doesn't go over well.laugh
Say you love them, or that you are soul mates.sick
Mention flying/moving to where they live.noway

OK, now it's your turn!


Well, I agree with you that all of those are pretty certain to generate a negative reaction.

On the other hand -- I'm a professional writer with 7 years of training in psychology. I am certainly capable of writing an e-mail which is entertaining and inoffensive. Doesn't matter how good it is, though -- I have NEVER gotten a reply here when I have sent a first e-mail.

I exchange e-mails with a lot of people on this site, and no one has ever accused me of writing anything offensive or inappropriate in any of them. So I really don't think the issue is in what I was writing, back in the days when I was still sending first e-mails.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:41 AM

"You look like a fine piece of ass"
prolly wouldn't be recommended.


although I am, yes, this is highly discouraged....laugh laugh