The value of a woman. This is written in the Hebrew Talmud. It says, "Be very careful if u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a mans rib. Not from his feet 2 be walked on. Not from his head to be superior. But from the side 2 be equal. Under the arm 2 be protected and next to the heart to be loved."

This is so true. I mean, why do guys mistreat women. I dont get it. Women, are smart, fun, passionate, loving, nurturing, caring, funny, and beautiful. I wonder what goes through a guys mind when he talks down to, cusses, abuses, or hits a women. I just dont get it. There are assholes that can get any girl that want, then there are guys like me who would never mistreat a woman in anyway shape or form, who always get told Im to nice. I have so much respect for women, I deffinately believe that women have it MUCH harder than men. Women all I have to say is I love u.

awwwwwwwwww

Thank you!

Plus they have B(.)(.)BS...

Here's to the women

We love you...

again....awwww

I agree with hellkitten Yeah if a man ever hit me one time his butt would of been walking out that door and never coming back into my life ever!! I hate abuse towards women!!

AWww, that is beautiful!

You are a sweetie pie!

Very well spoken. you are a rare breed indeed. I've never understood why men abuse women,either. They are cowards and bullies,with no conscience and a hard heart. Thats as close as I can figure.

Here's to men bashing

i believe men w/this kinda mentallity are extinguishing. (especially in my area)
in other words where have all the real men gone?
very lovely mr drummer.

unfortunately men with this kind of mentality are being bred out of existence....

I am not one of those types that thinks you have to put a woman down below you in order to have things stable and right. I more grew up watching the "charming gentleman" that you would see in old cartoons. Suave, sophisticated, stylish, total gentleman. He opens doors, pulls chairs, and totally charms a girl without being some "alpha male" or jerk to her. Sweeps her off her feet.

That's just how I imagine things, and try to put elements of that when I date. Charm her. Be a gentleman. Do those little things. Granted many women saw the actions as "weakness", but they did prove later they were the types who more relate to being abused and neglected as opposed to loved. Guys tell me my actions will send me into the friendzone more, but I don't care. If a woman can't appreciate me being a good man to her (and I am no doormat) then she's just not worth being with.

So if my breed is getting less and less, the I'll enjoy being an endangered species.

....I'm sorry to say how correct you are....my sons are big respecters of women....It really is the parents/moms & dads/grandparents..... whom are at fault.....I've asked mothers of men whom were screwed up....what did you do or not do, that made him that way.....I don't have a single male family member to think of whom is abusive to women in the 4 generations of family/men I've known....I attribute that to the moms especially...




~wicked~

Fri 04/04/08 10:35 AM
I am not one of those types that thinks you have to put a woman down below you in order to have things stable and right. I more grew up watching the "charming gentleman" that you would see in old cartoons. Suave, sophisticated, stylish, total gentleman. He opens doors, pulls chairs, and totally charms a girl without being some "alpha male" or jerk to her. Sweeps her off her feet.

That's just how I imagine things, and try to put elements of that when I date. Charm her. Be a gentleman. Do those little things. Granted many women saw the actions as "weakness", but they did prove later they were the types who more relate to being abused and neglected as opposed to loved. Guys tell me my actions will send me into the friendzone more, but I don't care. If a woman can't appreciate me being a good man to her (and I am no doormat) then she's just not worth being with.

So if my breed is getting less and less, the I'll enjoy being an endangered species.







well said sir, i totally agree.

Thats all nice I,m not a women basher my self and hate the cowardly act.I was brought up men and women are equal...It is not about who is in charge ,but a partnership...after all I would love the door opened for me once in awhile.Equality is a wonderful thing

I think BOTH genders RAWK!!!

ok so what I Got is a song....but it says it sooooooo well



Let me let you in on a secret
How to treat a woman right
If you're lookin' for a place in her heart
It ain't gonna happen overnight

First you gotta learn to listen
To understand her deepest thoughts
She needs to know you can be friends
Before she'll give you all she's got

If you start from the heart
You'll see love is gonna play it's part

If you wanna get to know her
Really get inside her mind
If you wanna move in closer
Take it slow, yeah take your time
You must start from the heart and then...
If you wanna touch her
Really wanna touch her
if you wanna touch her, ask!

A little physical attraction
Romantic, old-fashioned charm
And a lot of love and tenderness
Is gonna get you into her arms

If you start from the heart
You'll see love is gonna play it's part

If you wanna get to know her
Really get inside her mind
If you wanna move in closer
Take it slow, yeah take your time
You must start from the heart and then...
If you wanna touch her
Really wanna touch her
if you wanna touch her, ask!

Let me let you in on a secret
How to treat a woman right
If you're lookin' for a place in her heart
It ain't gonna happen, no it ain't gonna happen.

If you wanna get to know her
Really get inside her mind
If you wanna move in closer
Take it slow, yeah take your time
You must start from the heart and then...
If you wanna touch her
Really wanna touch her
if you wanna touch her, ask!