Fri 04/04/08 10:35 AM
I am not one of those types that thinks you have to put a woman down below you in order to have things stable and right. I more grew up watching the "charming gentleman" that you would see in old cartoons. Suave, sophisticated, stylish, total gentleman. He opens doors, pulls chairs, and totally charms a girl without being some "alpha male" or jerk to her. Sweeps her off her feet.

That's just how I imagine things, and try to put elements of that when I date. Charm her. Be a gentleman. Do those little things. Granted many women saw the actions as "weakness", but they did prove later they were the types who more relate to being abused and neglected as opposed to loved. Guys tell me my actions will send me into the friendzone more, but I don't care. If a woman can't appreciate me being a good man to her (and I am no doormat) then she's just not worth being with.

So if my breed is getting less and less, the I'll enjoy being an endangered species.







well said sir, i totally agree.

I love how there are a few guys who think I put this up just to get some, which is far from the truth. I posted this cause I believe its true.

"A woman has strengths that amaze me, she can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens, she holds happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when she feels like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying. Cries when she's happy, and laughs when she's afraid, her love is unconditional, there's only one thing wrong with her and that is that sometimes she forgets what she is worth."

The value of a woman. This is written in the Hebrew Talmud. It says, "Be very careful if u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a mans rib. Not from his feet 2 be walked on. Not from his head to be superior. But from the side 2 be equal. Under the arm 2 be protected and next to the heart to be loved."

This is so true. I mean, why do guys mistreat women. I dont get it. Women, are smart, fun, passionate, loving, nurturing, caring, funny, and beautiful. I wonder what goes through a guys mind when he talks down to, cusses, abuses, or hits a women. I just dont get it. There are assholes that can get any girl that want, then there are guys like me who would never mistreat a woman in anyway shape or form, who always get told Im to nice. I have so much respect for women, I deffinately believe that women have it MUCH harder than men. Women all I have to say is I love u.

So, Im new here. Not really sure what Im doing.