i have been on this website for awhile now. i have made some really cool friends. i actually found a guy that i really like on here and we started dating (though never meeting.) i have a couple of questions though....

yesterday i was just talking to someone who i know used to think he liked me. i told him about the other guy and he wasnt happy, but whenever we randomly communicated, it was friendly enough. than yesterday i answered a question that i probably shouldnt have answered (aka i had just gotten out of the shower...) but i didnt think that much of it. and well he went off on what he would do to me and well, got off to me. he kept telling me to tell him stuff and i kept saying i couldnt. obviously the best choice would have been to stop talking than, but i am sometimes way too nice for my own good. i tried to tell him after that i couldnt say anything because i loved this other guy, hoping he got that.

now for the other guy... he is in the military and far away and we both have like tons going on but i feel like... a second thought sometimes... i dont know...

my questions are.... did i do anything wrong and do i tell the boyfriend about the situation? and what should i do about the boyfriend.... how can you tell if you are a priority to someone?

Priority? Sometime's in person you don't know if you are

you have a boyfriend you have never met ???

lol... its strange i know... but it generally works for us... and its not we dont realize the whole issues that can come with that

That sounds strange. How can you have a boyfriend you have never met?

ok im all happy for you and everything..but how is he your b/f if you never met?and telling a guy you got out of the shower and for him to react is typical and if you dont know if youre a priority in somebodys life,its time you rethink this whole "we never met but hes my b/f thing"

i thought u had to physically date someone to call them a boyfriend?

HOW COULD HE BE YOUR BOYFRIEND, YOU NEVER MET?

lol... ok as much as i love talking about how strange my life and dating him is... not so much helping me...

do they have imaginary sex too?

lol... um well i dont have sex so no... im waiting till im married... and yeah...

CYBER SEX

i dated an army guy he was a big player...and are you even wondering about your priority and where you stand with him?hmmm not good

his name isnt will wilson is it

did you do anything wrong?.......do you feel guilt?


how can you tell if you are a priority to someone? Are they there to help you up ...when you fall..

Are they there to pat you on the back when you do well?...

Are they there to rub your belly when you have cramps?

oh wait...there not THERE at all.....

i think you need to find someone local to show you how special you are and stop selling your self so short

Bizzare

the thing is ... i am moving in like less than 2 months... so what is near now... wont be than... i am at this transition part of my life... im not selling myself short...

Well honestly, if this happened with my gf I would be mad. All she would have had to do is to stop talking to him. All people are different, but it would upset me

ur not getting the jist of the situation..ur not dating if u never met and if t think he is waiting for marriage to have sex ur out of ur mind..lol