Topic: One of your friends
Peccy's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:34 PM
is dating someone you cannot stand, we've pretty much all been there. (Especially a certain Lily pad I bet. Yes this is the real April Fools day fool laugh laugh laugh ) Anyhow, that person is trying to come between you two. What do you do?

pilgrimandpagan's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:37 PM
tell the friend about it
if that dose not work and the friend is willing to let you go as a friend then not much else you can do

itsmetina's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:39 PM
if the person likes you than other's opinions won't matter

Jill298's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:39 PM
you can't break them up... the more you try and push them apart, the more it looks like you are causing the problems.
You have to let your friend see the problems for him/ herself.

cnoteblack's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:39 PM
if their dating its none of your beez wax give your friend room to make his own decisions so theres no inbetween you two step aside and let them be together duh

MissBehaving's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:40 PM

Realize that my friend's intimate relationship has NOTHING to do with me

Value the time I do get to spend with my friend


bigsmile

EtherealEmbers's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:42 PM
poke them in the eye when your friend's not looking

msmyka's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:43 PM
chicks and ****s will come and go
but friendship is forever more


Ive been in this situation and the only solution is to be the better person and not stoop to their level.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:45 PM
Let them fight it out. Let em screw up. Have a cold beer and an "I told ya so" ready for em when it blows up in their face.

nonchalantwendy's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:46 PM
Men/woman come and go ..........true friends are forever.....
Depends on the situation.........the friend may see faults that you are blinded by...do to lust or what have you....I take some consideration of my true friends opinions.........She would know me best.........drinker glasses

TheShadow's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:48 PM
Let them make there own choices. people are who they are and we have to let them live there own lives.

no photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:50 PM
Just let it go. If the person is truly your friend then no amount of manipulation and scheming should be able to end the friendship. If it does then what does that say about the true nature of the friendship?

Hindzfeet's photo
Tue 04/01/08 12:54 PM

poke them in the eye when your friend's not looking

I like this answer it seems to be the most sensible one LOL

cdanny47's photo
Tue 04/01/08 01:02 PM

you can't break them up... the more you try and push them apart, the more it looks like you are causing the problems.
You have to let your friend see the problems for him/ herself.
I think jill has the only real answer

no photo
Tue 04/01/08 01:04 PM
Ahh..currently have this one. But understand, friend in question is one I can speak in very blunt terms - without giving offense.

Basically - told him I don't care who he is screwing, nor how - as long as it stays between him and her. I will be civil when she is around, but don't expect anything more than basic courtesy - and that ONLY because of our friendship.

As far as the soap opera nonsense - I don't have time, and am not interested. Keep her attitude on a leash, or I do it for you. No offense towards you intended - but am not about to brook the least bullsh*t.

ShadowLands's photo
Tue 04/01/08 02:30 PM

poke them in the eye when your friend's not looking


BRILLIANT!!!!!!!!!! laugh

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/01/08 02:33 PM
Nothing, if you fight it, it will only come back to bite you in the azz....

and who's the bigger fool dear, darling love o' mine??? Salty are we??

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 04/01/08 02:37 PM
i put my two penneth last time with my friend, she didnt speak to me for six months but i was there to pick up the pieces when he beat her up...and we are friends again...would i do it again ..yes ...its up to them if they listen or not