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| Topic: SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 4 | |
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single, and by the looks of how things have been going, its gonna stay that way  i'll drink to that
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Edited by
solestria
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Mon 04/07/08 08:49 PM
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how can u be dating someone but not exactly be taken?? if u are dating someone u are taken 
It's a polyamorous relationship. He's got a fiancee; we've met and get along fabulously, everyone's fully aware of and consenting to the situation. He's got another couple peripheral involvements, she sees a few other men, and I'm open to see other people as well. |
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every one has there thing,I just dont see it as a true relationship,and unless u are actually there 100 percent I dont see it as u are taken,but pls dont take it wrong
just my opinion 
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Edited by
solestria
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Mon 04/07/08 08:55 PM
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every one has there thing,I just dont see it as a true relationship,and unless u are actually there 100 percent I dont see it as u are taken,but pls dont take it wrong just my opinion
What's a "true relationship"? We all have interests outside out relationships; in the case of my network, some of those interests happen to be other people. Monogamy is not the only valid relationship structure, and doesn't mean we're not in 100%. You can think whatever you like, but your opinion on my relationship counts for very little in my mind. |
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I didnt expect it to count for any thing
as I said its my opinion and what I think I wasnt sayit it to put u down or what u do down |
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Edited by
solestria
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Mon 04/07/08 09:02 PM
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I didnt expect it to count for any thing as I said its my opinion and what I think I wasnt sayit it to put u down or what u do down I'm curious as to why you did say it then, and what reaction you expect when telling someone that you don't think their relationship counts as a "true relationship" simply because you wouldn't choose that relationship structure for yourself. That's not meant as hostility, simply curiosity. If you're actually interested, I'm happy to talk about it. |
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Edited by
OrangeCat
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Mon 04/07/08 09:04 PM
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didnt expect a thing
I state what I wanna say |
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didnt expect notta thing I state what I wanna say
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<---slow learner, small brain. don't quite grab such a concept.
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 <---slow learner, small brain. don't quite grab such a concept. |
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I wasnt trying to be rude or mean in any sense
I just state what I wanna say and if u think thats a real relationship then it is in your eyes and who ever else believes that. I dont think it is and thats just how I feel |
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<--- is polygamous with his underwear.
 
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger.
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I wasnt trying to be rude or mean in any sense I just state what I wanna say and if u think thats a real relationship then it is in your eyes and who ever else believes that. I dont think it is and thats just how I feel So why the problem differentiating between "type of relationship I wouldn't want" and "real relationship"? How do you feel you can know how real my relationship is based on such extremely limited information? |
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I wasnt trying to be rude or mean in any sense I just state what I wanna say and if u think thats a real relationship then it is in your eyes and who ever else believes that. I dont think it is and thats just how I feel So why the problem differentiating between "type of relationship I wouldn't want" and "real relationship"? How do you feel you can know how real my relationship is based on such extremely limited information? you seem to be getting mighty defensive when all he did was state his views... you have yours, he has his... lets all move on with our lives |
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger. Swinging is a different subset of non-monogamous relationships. Swinging involves sexual connections outside a partnership, whereas polyamory involves multiple romantic relationships. There is a great deal of emotional attachment involved, and the relationships are ongoing. |
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I wasnt trying to be rude or mean in any sense I just state what I wanna say and if u think thats a real relationship then it is in your eyes and who ever else believes that. I dont think it is and thats just how I feel So why the problem differentiating between "type of relationship I wouldn't want" and "real relationship"? How do you feel you can know how real my relationship is based on such extremely limited information? you seem to be getting mighty defensive when all he did was state his views... you have yours, he has his... lets all move on with our lives I'm curious as to how he lacks the ability to differentiate between "not for me" and "not real" based on a few lines of text. I would never approach an entire relationship structure with that view, and it baffles me that he thinks that's a valid approach to a new idea. I'm not attacking, but honestly curious. |
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