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| Topic: SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 4 | |
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like I said it may be a real relationship in your eyes and who ever else believes in that.
it may be real in your eyes and thats cool but I do not believe its a real relationship and thats my thoughs and what I believe. I am onw who is and always will be with one person,and when and if I meet that one person,that will be the only one I will be with. being able to see different people,will never be a real relationship and thats in my eyes so if u are happy in what u are in,I am happy for u truly but as I stated I wasnt trying to attack u,be mean or rude.I was just stating what I feel.that may not be what u feel.but it is how I feel |
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger. Swinging is a different subset of non-monogamous relationships. Swinging involves sexual connections outside a partnership, whereas polyamory involves multiple romantic relationships. There is a great deal of emotional attachment involved, and the relationships are ongoing. |
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger. ((((((Sil)))))sorry havent been on much in the last few days,been trying ot get my blazer working right how have u been 
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger. Swinging is a different subset of non-monogamous relationships. Swinging involves sexual connections outside a partnership, whereas polyamory involves multiple romantic relationships. There is a great deal of emotional attachment involved, and the relationships are ongoing. I guess that depends upon your definition of "taken". I max out around two partners, so I feel fairly taken at that point--I don't have the time and energy to maintain more romantic connections at a time than that. This varies by person. |
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taken is a committed relationship between 2 people not u and 2 to 3 other people..
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Then again, my recent ex and I, while theoretically polyamorous, were functionally monogamous due to neither of us actually dating anyone else while we were together, and I was feeling fairly taken with him despite still being technically available.
Of course, I haven't had a nominally monogamous relationship in many years, so terms like "taken" don't mean all that much to me in general, and I tend not to like the hint of ownership I sense in the term. |
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no one owns any one,in any relationship that aint a true relationship either
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger. ((((((Sil)))))sorry havent been on much in the last few days,been trying ot get my blazer working right how have u been |
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I own my own body and thats all,I dont try to own any one nore do I want to.
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taken is a committed relationship between 2 people not u and 2 to 3 other people.. Interesting. According to your definition? What about people in polyfidelitous triads, for instance, where three people are in a romantic relationship with each other but don't date outside the triad? That's a 3-person relationship where the participants really ARE taken in a more traditional sense. You're right, though, in a more open situation like mine, terms like "taken" feel rather out of place and don't particularly apply. |
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(((jason))) where u been? and ur not taken if ur not with one particular person..she sounds like a swinger. ((((((Sil)))))sorry havent been on much in the last few days,been trying ot get my blazer working right how have u been missed ya to sweetie
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very single
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no one owns any one,in any relationship that aint a true relationship either I don't disagree, I'm just saying that I feel a hint of that in the term "taken", which is why I suspect that I wouldn't like it even if I were in a monogamous relationship. |
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  Holy Chite...  S I N G L E And good with it ((((( O C )))))) 
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taken is a committed relationship between 2 people not u and 2 to 3 other people.. Interesting. According to your definition? What about people in polyfidelitous triads, for instance, where three people are in a romantic relationship with each other but don't date outside the triad? That's a 3-person relationship where the participants really ARE taken in a more traditional sense. You're right, though, in a more open situation like mine, terms like "taken" feel rather out of place and don't particularly apply. if it aint 2 people in a relationship it is not a true relationship no matter what u say,now many may believe it is,but far to many more know it isnt |
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Holy Chite... S I N G L E And good with it ((((( O C )))))) ((((((angel))))))hi sweetie 
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taken is a committed relationship between 2 people not u and 2 to 3 other people.. Interesting. According to your definition? What about people in polyfidelitous triads, for instance, where three people are in a romantic relationship with each other but don't date outside the triad? That's a 3-person relationship where the participants really ARE taken in a more traditional sense. You're right, though, in a more open situation like mine, terms like "taken" feel rather out of place and don't particularly apply. if it aint 2 people in a relationship it is not a true relationship no matter what u say,now many may believe it is,but far to many more know it isnt Again, I wonder how you have any idea how "real" my relationship is, and how anyone who hasn't even seen it, let alone is involved in it, can "know" that it isn't? |
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Edited by
OrangeCat
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Mon 04/07/08 09:29 PM
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taken does not mean someone owns u and nore does it have any hint of any one owning u.
it means u are with someone,someone loves u and cares for u |
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romantic ur meaning sex right?
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