i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man