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Topic: once a cheat always a cheat
misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 03/04/09 11:53 AM
Do you think this statement is true?Would you date someone who admitted to cheating in the past?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 03/04/09 11:56 AM
It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person. But yes, I have, I would, and I am. I did it once myself. I learned my lesson. Now my ex? He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who...

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 03/04/09 12:01 PM
It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person. But yes, I have, I would, and I am. I did it once myself. I learned my lesson. Now my ex? He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who... I do believe people can change I would inquire if they came clean and were sorry for their actions

Theshortelktonman Joined Fri 02/27/09 Posts: 147	Wed 03/04/09 12:06 PM
from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:08 PM
Do you think this statement is true?Would you date someone who admitted to cheating in the past? Probably. As lomg as they dont cheat on me.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Wed 03/04/09 12:09 PM
I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:09 PM
It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person. But yes, I have, I would, and I am. I did it once myself. I learned my lesson. Now my ex? He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who... dang. Now thats a tiger that wont change his stripes

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:09 PM
It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person. But yes, I have, I would, and I am. I did it once myself. I learned my lesson. Now my ex? He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who... I do believe people can change I would inquire if they came clean and were sorry for their actions People can change

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:10 PM
from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good. I always wonder why karma never brings anything good. Only bad.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 03/04/09 12:11 PM
from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good. what goes around comes arounds rings true

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:11 PM
I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again. I think that if a person has cheated in the past that doesnt mean they will always do that.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:12 PM
from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good. what goes around comes arounds rings true Sometimes

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 03/04/09 12:14 PM
I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again. you mean just one time or one person?

gems69 Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 1	Wed 03/04/09 12:14 PM
i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:18 PM
I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again. you mean just one time or one person? I think that he means if you cheat two different times

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 12:18 PM
i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man Its a crime of oppurtunity

etihn Joined Tue 02/10/09 Posts: 211	Wed 03/04/09 12:18 PM
It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person. But yes, I have, I would, and I am. I did it once myself. I learned my lesson. Now my ex? He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who... Liars never lose trust because they never had it, and a lie never lives to be old. Here endith the Gospel according to etihn.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 03/04/09 12:19 PM
I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again. you mean just one time or one person? I think that he means if you cheat two different times I think most cheaters hit it all they can

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 03/04/09 12:20 PM
i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man Oh you got me beat by a MILE!!!!

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 03/04/09 12:21 PM
Do you think this statement is true?Would you date someone who admitted to cheating in the past? generally