I believe you only get out what you put in, only just started in the forums i have patients so ill let time tell. Thanks for your input

Hard work posting about yourself and reading others profiles, trying to find a shared interest. No one chats so i thought i would try to get, well all of your opinions. Do you find it hard?

Other than in forums and especially on dating sites, why is it so hard to get people to talk. From my new and recent experience of this site and other similar social and dating sites ive found it very hard to get people to just chat, have a casual chat nothing else why is this? People put as headings on their profiles looking for friends and chat only, i/we see this and with the same in mind send a quick message to try start a convo. Wait, wait and wait some more. Log off, log on, person has viewed your profile but no reply, this is annoying why have profiles that state the chat and friendship when not actually looking for it. Are these people just wanting friends who are good looking, tall, rich and famous. Tell me peps since when has most of your close friends been any of the above most soz nearly all of my friends are fat, thin, ugly, skint, ex cons ect. Some are the opposite to this though I treat all of them the same, they are my friends and I would not change them. Back to the beginning looking for friends and chat shouldn't you be open to have a discussion at least especially if you've stated it on your profile. This really pisses me off I enjoy most of my chats with people on-line even if just a few lines on the one evening, oh there has also been a few not so good chats as well. All I say is if you put chat and friendship on your profile then please, DONT BE HARD TO TALK TO

Time has no construct, time only begins with the observer where or when are you when it begins, only my uneducated thought

Many thanks for your advice, the reason I said that was because the first interest I had was from some low life looking for a visa. Because I've not long relocated in the UK I changed my profile to look for new friends in my area to meet, go out and do things with I don't mind talking to anyone, who or wherever they are in the world. Again many thanks for your imput much appreciated

Please rate my profile im looking for any tips to improve it as I haven't had much luck