Done, thanks for your input!

Well I honestly never had em that way. Doesn't sound too bad.

The profile or title of the post?

So what's your opinion?

I have a friend who I am attracted to and she tells me that I'm too good for her. She thinks she's f'ed up, crazy, annoying, and can't understand why any guy would want to be with her. "I pity the guy that gets stuck with me." On the outside I don't see any of the attributes she describes. I wonder if many women feel that way, that they somehow don't deserve a "good guy".

As for the common denominator I didn't mean I was gonna re-write mine to reach out to the most people or be someone I'm not. I'm far to bullheaded to change for someone. lol Perhaps I worded that wrong. I'm just plain curious. Is it the hot guy in the pic, is it the poetic wording, is it bluntness. I'm wondering if there really is attraction that can happen without the physical realm. Can someone really like another based on the other persons narrative alone?

Well I realize everyone is different but I bet there is a common denominator. Besides I wanted to see some different answers and based on those members profiles I could measure up what different women like to see and if they are the kinda women I'd be interested in.

Even back in the index?

First off before posting this I realize how one could pull desperation or pity from it but I assure you I am soliciting neither.

Ladies, what grabs your attention with an online personal ad? Does a shorter ad leave you wanting more and make you more likely to respond to an email or does a more complete ad give you more to go on? Is it what a guy writes in his ad or how he writes it?

Guess I'm asking for some insight in the Woman's Handbook of yours.