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Wed 03/25/09 03:04 PM
I like to say:

"What comes around goes around"flowerforyou

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Tue 03/17/09 04:37 PM
And the best book I've read on Buddhism is

What the Buddha Taught by Walpola Rahula

And I just have to share this...since where all learning here...from page 86 of the aboveforementioned book...

As the Buddha says:
"The victor breeds hatred, and the defeated lies down in misery. He who renounces both victory and defeat is happy and peaceful."

thank u for letting me share biggrin

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Tue 03/17/09 08:37 AM


Friend or not, you at one time were close(17 years). You more than likely spent time with each others families.

I agree with Lilth, goto the service and offer your condolensces.

One of my biggest fears as an only childand being single is dealing with my parents death alone. You need to go and show your support and pay respects to his DAD, he did nothing wrong to you.




i was not invited to the service and have not been informed of where it will be held. if i knew the location of the service i would send a card and flowers. my life does not overlap with his and his family's. none of them have any place in my life.



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Well then if that's the case...do nothing and let it go :)

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Tue 03/17/09 08:35 AM

A friendship for 17yrs.. hmm, you must have known his father, no? Send flowers/plant to the "family". His father never did anything to you.


I couldn't have said it better myself. Good luck to ya on this one.

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Tue 03/17/09 07:40 AM
Edited by justmerit on Tue 03/17/09 07:41 AM
Hello to you Mike...check it out...I'm sure you'll find it interesting waving


ooopppsss my finger went wild...i hate it when that happens
hehelaugh

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Tue 03/17/09 07:40 AM
Hello to you Mike...check it out...I'm sure you'll find it interesting waving

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Mon 03/16/09 07:12 PM
My mother used to say "patience is a virtue"...took me many many years to figure that one out....I think I have it...I try to keep a check on that one as much as I can...guess one could say it's principles before...:wink:

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Mon 03/16/09 07:06 PM

love love

LONELY MALE LOOKING FOR A MAN TO ENJOY FROM THE BRATTLEBORO VT AREA HAVE YAHOO SCOTT_CAPEN@YAHOO.COM



That got a lot of attention aye...indifferent

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Mon 03/16/09 06:48 PM


I think its about timing and if you are attracted to the person whi is emailing you...

You are right but a not interested reply is better than no reply. God bless


I think you gotta point there...not interested reply is better than no reply...it's just down right inconsiderate...jmho

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Mon 03/16/09 04:38 PM
Mount Mansfield looking at Mt. Washington
and hmmm was there crack....did I say that noway

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Sat 03/07/09 09:51 AM
I do beliebe she is right...I didn't sign up for this forum but it came up anyeway. Geesh, I thought things were dead in AR also...good to see some ppl talking. My problem is I'm new to this site and new to AR, I thought if I logged on here I'd learn some things about this place...so far...nada...oh well in time maybe. Wait I did learn one thing....there's another addict here...yes...see as they say you're not alone laugh
Well...if I hang out here long enough maybe I'll learn more...

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Mon 03/02/09 01:16 PM
Ruth...I tend to agree with Winx...it is his/their loss...
sad thing is there's so many of them out there lossin' out on
something that might be good.

hugs to ya all

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Mon 03/02/09 05:53 AM
Thanks for your answer...it's what I expected to hear. I just thought I'd see how many responses to the question I would get and how the answers would go. I'm sorry you had to deal with an individual of that caliber. I do appreciate your honesty in answering my biggrin silly question.



waving

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Sun 03/01/09 11:11 AM
Fibromyalgia what a topic.
Ok...I guess I'll start with some history then throw out my question.
I was dx'd in 1992 after having surgery in '89 for throasic outlet syndrome, had a bi-lateral first rib resection. I worked until '92 as a bookkeeper/secretary...constantly on the computer...as I am now ohwell ...at the time I was married, had a kid about 6yo then, then 8 yrs later got divorced...was single living by myself for about 3-4 years...thenhuh had another child after and 1 yr later she moved to where she is now with her permanent guardians...I was living with this male for 4-5 yrs...My fibro/tos/cfs/add/oa blah blah blah can keep me on the couch some days...and some days I'm out doing stuff like a "normal" person....ok...I hope the history is laid out enough to ask the following question...

How do you all with this condition find individuals to hang with and/or live with who can tolerate this condition, life style, situation?

Personally :smile: I don't think I'm all that demanding a person but any one I've met or have hung out with ultimately can't stand hanging with a fibro-person ...I've observed this with several other friends of mine that live with fibro as well
...maybe it's just me...yes I've thought that

...so...here I sit...which is fine I can live with that if I have too ...if not and there are people out there that don't mind a fibro-persons life style maybe I'll run into them. Right now I have a housemate who also has fibro and we've only shared this living situation for a short while but we both do know and understand how someone with fibro etc has to live.

So...there's the question...if anyone can give me there insight...thanks I'd love to read what you all have to say.

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Sun 03/01/09 10:38 AM
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HI there....have fun...good luck

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Sun 03/01/09 10:37 AM
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hello boxerlover...have fun

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Sun 03/01/09 08:50 AM
Thanks all...and
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backatcha

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Sun 03/01/09 08:42 AM
Hi everyone...

Like it says, I'm just another newbie here...and new to AR...I joined this site to try to meet some new friends...check out my profile if you'd like to talk send me a message and we'll go from there. Everyone have a great Sunday.
peace,
justmerit

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Sun 03/01/09 08:06 AM
Hello all...
I'm new here and new to AR...thought I'd join to see if I could find some new friends and see where things go. I'm not sure how this all works but I guess I'll figure it out. Anyone want to talk send me a message and I'll more then likely respond. I guess that's it for now...have a great day.
peace,
justmerit

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