addiction to internet is possible.I have told him I would like him to
spend less time on the computer,and more time with his wife and
kids.....but you see how well that's worked

Im sorry you feel that way slick,no offense but just looking at your
username,I can see you would be a bad source for marrige advise,why did
you even bother to respond??

he works about 50 hours a week at firestone as a mechanic,and he spends
most of the rest of the time looking at ballcards on ebay

Also,we have had discussions before about all this....he'll say he loves
me and he'll try for a short while,then it's back to the way it used to
be.To make things more complicated we have 2 kids.

Thank you for your advice.The thing is I have tried so many different
tactics......and I have told him how I feel,but in the end he never
wants to really go anywhere.I even told him I would go to base ball,and
football games(which Im not into sports)just to spark an interest in
him,but ......I just Know what to do anymore,it feels hopeless.

could anyone give me their opinion please.I have been married to my
husband for 5 years,and we have done alot of struggling to make things
work,and we seem to be getting along better than ever(considering how we
used to argue alot),but the thing is I just don't feel like he's really
trying to keep this thing alive.....he doesn't seem interested in going
places with me and doing things.He's nice to me most of the time,but I
can't help feeling like we don't really click.He spends way too much
time on the internet,or just doing his own thing,it would seem obvious
that he's not interested,but he tells me he loves me......Im finding
myself very doubtful.I tell him I want to do more with him ,ya know...go
places....even the museum would be better than nothing.We have only been
to the zoo once when we first started seeing eachother,since
then.....only to a movie here and there...or eating someplace...that's
it in all our 5 years.

I could fun myself to bed actually....yawn

to infinity and = beyond

wow...this could go on=forever

Happy v-day...oui

I love paris

aha...we have a frenchman on our hands

ooh la la,senor mick

strong mind

no sweet perfume ever tortured more than this

anyone like sting?desert rose

:)

michael's a clever one

you got it

hey where did everyone go