I get the impression men think they're automatically a good guy when they're not a player or not a good-looking hunk with a gorgeous body.
Sorry to break it to you men .. that does NOT make you a good man!

A good man knows his worth, has something going on in his life other than looking for (needing? --> sign of lack) a woman and relationship.
He's got a passion, can stand on his own two feet, dealt with his past, takes care of himself, because he cares about himself. Meaning he grooms, feels good about himself, what he looks like, who he is etc etc.

So apart from the 'bad guys', by which we usually mean the players, the sexy men who chat up every girl and woman they see, there's also the 'bad guy' type that is a .. well, sorry .. a "loser".
So this type of bad guy is not the player, but also not a good guy.

Women aren't looking for a man who doesn't have anything going for himself. We want a man! Doesn't mean you gotta look like Brad Pitt (I don't fancy him anyways, lol), but you gotta have a backbone, a life, self-esteem etc.

And from what I've seen, there are a lot of men out there that are lonely, can't get the hang of life on their own. Men that are needy ..
Not appealing .. and those are not good men, even though they probably think they are..

lol.. would love to go to mars

Since you're asking for permission, I'm going to go ahead and deny your request.

BTW, if you date too young, it's a felony.