As a man, I ask you men, what makes you drawn to certain body types...like, how are thin girls more appealing to you...or how are girls with added pounds better than thin girls? I've met guys w strict preferences like these...so I ask.

How is one hair color more preferable than another? how exactly is brunettes more appealing than blonds or blonds more appealing than brunettes?

Isn't there a deeper answer than "genetics"?


Secondly, can a woman here explain what she thinks is the main thing - I said the 'main' or 'predominant' thing - that keeps getting in the way of potential relationships between men and women, and then explain 'why' or 'how' this is so. I always hear men's theories. But I've been curious what women think. Intellectual answers preferred.