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Edited by
paradox01
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Wed 11/12/14 05:05 PM
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As a man, I ask you men, what makes you drawn to certain body types...like, how are thin girls more appealing to you...or how are girls with added pounds better than thin girls? I've met guys w strict preferences like these...so I ask.
How is one hair color more preferable than another? how exactly is brunettes more appealing than blonds or blonds more appealing than brunettes? Isn't there a deeper answer than "genetics"? Secondly, can a woman here explain what she thinks is the main thing - I said the 'main' or 'predominant' thing - that keeps getting in the way of potential relationships between men and women, and then explain 'why' or 'how' this is so. I always hear men's theories. But I've been curious what women think. Intellectual answers preferred. |
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I'm not going to go with "boobs"
. simply because another m2..member !!prefers that answer..lol . but seriously nicely put together topic? .. question op...  
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Edited by
fleta_n_mach
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Wed 11/12/14 05:43 PM
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As a man, I ask you men, what makes you drawn to certain body types...like, how are thin girls more appealing to you...or how are girls with added pounds better than thin girls? I've met guys w strict preferences like these...so I ask. How is one hair color more preferable than another? how exactly is brunettes more appealing than blonds or blonds more appealing than brunettes? Isn't there a deeper answer than "genetics"? Secondly, can a woman here explain what she thinks is the main thing - I said the 'main' or 'predominant' thing - that keeps getting in the way of potential relationships between men and women, and then explain 'why' or 'how' this is so. I always hear men's theories. But I've been curious what women think. Intellectual answers preferred. ..so I ask. .... You are all over the place in questions for topic, number one "thingie". Two. Asking that question of men, you do know is SUBJECTIVE and individual. Are you planning on polling all of the internet as well? Then average the percentages? Three. Not secondly, I would subjecture most women would say respect and trust, for example lying. No explanation needed if you are intellectual yourself. |
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Trust and respect are primary to me...but most men I've encountered on this site are too immature to realize what is of lasting and true value because they prefer game playing with people they say they can't trust ! Sad state but it is definitely true of those who are too immature to see what is truly worthwhile in relationships. They must learn through self experience if they are truly seeking someone of true value... But don't we all! Live and learn!
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the answers are as varied as the people on here.
the question is what appeals to you? we can all tell you what we think, but that's what is right for us. only you can decide what is right for yourself. |
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Edited by
Argo
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Wed 11/12/14 08:57 PM
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As a man, I ask you men, what makes you drawn to certain body types...like, how are thin girls more appealing to you...or how are girls with added pounds better than thin girls? I've met guys w strict preferences like these...so I ask.......Isn't there a deeper answer than "genetics"? to put it as a gambler, the odds of falling in love with a woman who fits your preconceived ideal of what she should look like, are about the same as rolling hard-eights 200 times in a row.....so i'll say....do the "mathematics" and...... "love the one you're with"....TY Stephan Stills... |
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to me I could careless about what they look like. I do care about the personality. but the most important thing to me is her eyes. when I look at someone I always look them in the eyes. you can tell a lot about a woman by looking them in the eyes. its all there to see. there mood, demeanor, and emotion. and the eyes can never hide a lie or ill intent.
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Intellectual answers preferred.
From Humans? 
I'll have to tell that one the next time I'm with my fellow Melmacians. |
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to me I could careless about what they look like. I do care about the personality. but the most important thing to me is her eyes. when I look at someone I always look them in the eyes. you can tell a lot about a woman by looking them in the eyes. its all there to see. there mood, demeanor, and emotion. and the eyes can never hide a lie or ill intent. Over here in Africa, when you look into some womens eyes all you will see are demons 
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I agree ...when you meet someone that might end up very special to you it is the eyes... that looks happy... sad all kinds of emotion found and they will not stop looking at you or u them something is just drawing you toward them ... you can seem to help ... and if those can not see they have to go by how one acts and what they say at first ... least thats what I would think ...
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