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Fri 11/20/15 08:17 PM
It may come as a surprise to people but nothing is on my wish list.
I am at a point in my life where I don't wish for anything. Not because I have all I want but because wishing for the impossible and improbable is delusional thinking.

My reality shows that I get what I want if it is a matter of money and those things for the heart, well any amount of wishing will not make it so.

Nothing....I wish for nothing.

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Fri 11/20/15 08:13 PM
I don't get it...?

Lets just say you win and I grovel at your feet for a inappropriate length of time?

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Fri 11/20/15 08:11 PM
Edited by Tomishereagain on Fri 11/20/15 08:12 PM
Thinking...It's Friday Night

Used to be I would be at the river with my friends and a bonfire and boose.
Used to be I would be roaming the lounges on Virgina Beach Blvd.
Used to be me and the wife would be dancing at the local pub.
Used to be something to do with someone I wanted to do it with.

Now, its wondering what I can find to watch till I'm tired enough to go to bed...alone...

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Fri 11/20/15 08:01 PM
TMommy, Thats good advice for everyone, even most men.

You must love yourself in order to love another...

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Fri 11/20/15 07:58 PM
You look gorgeous in that sweater you picked and the jeans you had me wear are a bit tight but I know you love seeing me in them.

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Fri 11/20/15 07:56 PM
Not too cold here (60s)
A nice walk on the beach and maybe a nightcap at the local beach pub before going home to a good cuddly movie...

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Fri 11/20/15 07:54 PM
This one was unfair as everyone has something going on! It might be something you have to interact with them to find out, but I still believe that everyone has a good feature or quality.


Kudos!

Creating an online personality is difficult. With online dating it becomes a crucial factor in responses.
Sometimes, less is more and sometime you just gotta put it out there.

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Fri 11/20/15 07:39 PM
Stay...And so it begins...

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Fri 11/20/15 07:29 PM
Staying...I think you are worth it...

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Fri 11/20/15 07:27 PM
I have come to realize through several years and many different sites that it is not possible to fall in love on the net.


BINGO!
Too many people are looking for love to satisfy their Instant Gratification Syndrome

I think the internet can be useful to learn about someone, build a friendship, and even to share some moments in life together.


Again, Right on the Money
To start any relationship there has to be some interaction.

At lease for me love is not possible when you cannot involve all of your senses at the same time, and that can only be done when you are physically in contact with each other.


A great acknowledgement...
Even then, love is something that can't be forced. You can't make yourself fall in love. You can't make someone fall in love with you.
It all takes time together.

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Fri 11/20/15 07:20 PM
Still staying...Been around the world and met a million girls...show me.

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Fri 11/20/15 07:17 PM
Stay...Lead on baby, you might show me something new

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Fri 11/20/15 07:14 PM
Cuddling on the porch...

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Fri 11/20/15 07:10 PM
Stay...interesting

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Fri 11/20/15 07:08 PM


I've heard a lot of stories but I've been trying to do this online dating thing for more than 20 years and I've never gotten a single date from any of the more than 15 sites I've been on.


You've been doing this for 20 years? And you are still here on a dating site? I think I would have hung it up long ago. Me, I write no one here. I hang out here for the forums. I've been on two other sites for a while now. I get dates. That's not my problem. My problem is the quality of the women on these sites. It seems to me that a lot of dating sites attract the trash of the world. The weird & the goofy. The nutty & the high-minded. Women with unruly kids. Or kids that stay in trouble all the time. Or grown kids that refuse to leave, Or want to stay under their mom's backside all the time.

And that's just a little of what I've run into. And that doesn't include my little stint as a "problem solver" on a dating site. I haven't written anyone in two or three months now. I need a rest from the asylum.


Been on a few dates from datehookup that resulted in much the same scenario.
That's why I am listed as 'Seeking Friendships" and nothing else. Still there is very few contacts.

I'm kinda stuck. Stuck with lowering my standard or throwing them away. Not about to throw them away...

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Fri 11/20/15 07:03 PM
What makes someone attracted to you?


Obviously ... Nothing


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Fri 11/20/15 07:01 PM
I wish it would go away

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Fri 11/20/15 06:58 PM
I don't think so. Way too many people enjoy the human mating cycle.

I did porn when I was 30. I figured out that real life sex was far superior. Haven't wanted to see porn since.

I studied the Kama Sutra. Its more than just sexual positions. When you grow up, you will understand that.

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Fri 11/20/15 06:53 PM
Love me for who I am?


It has been my experience that most people don't really know who they are.
Not only do they not know themselves, they don't know what they want.

I once gave a date EXACTLY what they asked for. It was a disaster.
Meither of us developed a personal bond with the other.

So, I ask, Who are you...really?

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Fri 11/20/15 06:47 PM
Would you still data a guy if he got beat in armwrestling by a female or you.Would you stay with him.


Seems kinda shallow to me...

It has been impressed upon men that we must be better than the females. Not only in strength but with intelligence as well.

Well, I'll be your girly man if you need me to be.

But don't pi ss me off because all bets are off

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