thats a bunch of hogwash? yea they do

Ive lived with men........and sometimes its just NOT PRETTY!!!

I've seen that.

Grrrrrrrrrr.....I need to vent and this is as good a place as any...it's completely off topic so just ignore if you want, but I gotta get this off my chest.

So, I met a guy tonight from another site I have been talking to for a couple of months. He had to drive over 200 mi to come here. His profile said he was 5'8" and 'a few pounds overweight'. Welllll.....he stepped out of his truck and he was shorter than me, I am 5'3" so I'm guessing he was 5'2" and he had to weigh close to 300 pounds, he was morbidly obese. There just was not a connection for me. I am not my optimum weight either, probably about 7 or 8 pounds more than I should be, but I told him that and my height is on my profile, I did not mislead him about my appearance. He stayed a couple of hours, we had dinner, I was desperately trying to see if there might be a connection, but there just wasn't. When I told, he tried to make me feel guilty about how far he had driven and now how far he would have to drive right back. I hated embarassing him, it was even embarassing for me, but I did not feel like I could keep letting him think something was gonna happen between us. Now, I feel like a heel, I hate hurting people, but if he had been honest to begin with there would have never been a meeting, thus, not putting either if us in that position. It's so much easier when people are honest.