If you cant accept her as she is, then just move along.

I am not religious - and I do not trust indoctrination - an I hate more than anyone commanding me what should be.

But more than anything I hate people telling me what I can/cannot do. I make my own choices to my best judgement.


The same applies for a woman, I won't do that to her. Just be loyal, reasonable, compromising and responsible.

Is she has tattoos - her choice - not yours.

If you don't like her tattoos - it's pretty simple - just move on and keep searching for someone who doesn't.

Skin color has never mattered to me.

However, I rarely date inside my own race these days - I trust white females far less than everyone else.

But I have also been hurt/baited or attacked the most by people of my own race.

Crazy right?


Will be deleting profile soon though - just starting a relationship with a stunning black lady and she is absolutely fantastic so far - possibly the most amazing woman I have ever met.

Before chatting or going to WhatApp, I always run their photos through `Yandex`.

Yandex is a reverse image search which it tries to match the photos directly, and it's free.
It will list every location it finds the same photo and all the different resolutions you find them in.
It doesn't Guess like the now AI infested Google or Bing searches and it doesn't store your private data.

If you only get similar results, I search for an identical face.

This is a useful extra search, scammers use fake/stolen images alot.

A positive match with a scammer means:
The photo sent are often stolen from a long list of adult websites or reused across many classified ads under inconsistent names.


If they pass my Yandex investigation, I follow up with a Facebook search.
If I can find a face/profile on Facebook matching her correct name, that helps validate her.

Don't use Google image search, it's useless now with AI.

If it looks too good to be true, take extra vigilance.


My checklist is this:
- Does not complain about or ask for money.
- Does not have stolen photos or can be identified as a legitimate person.
- Is easily willing to voice/live video call.
- Is willing to meet in person in a populated, safe public place.
- Does not exhibit red flags which could lead to problems later.
- DO NOT get baited into sexting in text/video. Don't - you will get blackmailed and harassed.



However:

I'll be deleting my dating profiles soon though.
I just met a friggen beautiful girl on Tinder - and I suspected her of being a scammer.

I originally swiped left on her 4 times over the year because she looks like a model, looked too good to be true, and sounded too good to be true.

After resetting card stack one last time, I decided "why not", swiped right.

I layed out what im looking for right off the bat, she passes Yandex search, didn't ask for money, didn't bait me.

I found her face matching her name on Facebook, and none of her photos were anywhere on the net.

After some chatting she told me I'm different and decided she wants to formally enter into a relationship with me.

The crazy thing is she is stunning but humble.
I think I finally got the dice rolled in my favor and I have even met her sister.

Good luck people.
Be safe.