Makes perfect sense.

Well, I can hope that's what it is, but I'm betting that it's just that he's not that into me.

Well, I haven't asked him out, but he knows that I am very interested in him.

I think you knew from the start, just needed someone to assure you.
Good Luck!


Thanks! That's why I like these forums. Getting other peoples' thoughts, helps to make me realize I pretty much had the answer all along, but just didn't want to see it.

Oh yeah...Cinderella is right...you go girl
Tell me...has he ever seemed a little boring?


No, can't say the time we've spent together has ever been boring. We can talk for hours.

Yeah, I think I just realized all this myself.

He's definitely not gay, and I know he's not married (his son and my daughter are good friends). And he seems like the type that isn't afraid to go after what he wants.

And now that I typed that, I just answered my own question. If he really wanted me, he would be putting more effort into things.

Damn! I really liked this guy too!

Well, if he goes any slower, I'm going to have to say "see ya".

We've only seen each other 4 times, but have been emailing or texting (did I mention I hate texting?) for about 3 weeks.

This is what I don't get. I feel that we need to spend more time together to get to know each other, but he seems ok with just texting.

He doesn't seem to be much into touching until I get ready to leave. Then his kisses are sooo hot. But I know that doesn't mean anything. I've met too many guys in the past who can fake what they feel for you just to get you into bed.

I guess I just feel if I ask him this so early in the game, he's going to immediately think I am needy, and totally back off.

I am just looking for a little clue into how the male psyche works.

Am trying.

Or do most know right away? I've always heard that most guys know fairly quickly if they want to keep seeing a woman or not.

I've just been getting very mixed signals from a guy that I started seeing. We've seen each other a total of 4 times now. Not really dates, just hanging out and talking. We text every day (which I HATE, as I would rather talk on the phone), and he says that he is looking for a real, rest of his life, type of relationship.

We live in the same town, so it would be very easy to get together more often, if he wanted to. So, I am thinking that maybe he doesn't want to. But then why does he keep contacting me?

Could use some insight.....

non-existant in my world

Well, considering my dates are few and far between, it would hardly be "over and over". And it's more like the same type of guy picking me out, than me picking them.

whatever.......

Than play the games that guys seem to want to play. I'm done.

It's about time Iowa did something right!

Why the heck did you come to Chariton for New Years? I went to Des Moines! This town is dead!