RWMountain, are you stupid? If signs of suicide are obvious, there are many people out there in the world that will try to help. Many people keep their emotions bottled up inside and do not share their depression issues until it is to late. As far as my most recent loss, we did try to help. We (my boss and myself) went as far as to take his medication from him and give it to him every morning, so he would not "forget" to take it. We told him to continue seeing his doctor, which he chose not to continue. I also spent many hours toward the end of his life counseling him and trying to let him know things would change. I always invited him over, because I know what depression feels like. For you to even think that someone would not help a dear friend or family member in a time of need makes me believe that you feel like there isn't anyone in your life who would help you in your darkest hours. Your post deeply offended me. I ask God everyday why there wasn't an answer for my friend. He had a good family, and good friends that were always there for him. That is why people call it a selfish act. When you are only concerned with your own life and do not care about what killing yourself will do to the rest of the world, that is selfish.

No. You should always share your true feelings. If the feeling isn't the same then you should stop wasting time and move on.

My best friend hung himself in jail last October, and I know the pain you feel. I am truely sorry for your loss and pray that time will heal all of those who were hurt by this tragedy. So far 3 months has not been long enough.

I don't think criticism is your forte.

I wrote my name in the snow last week. Good one!

Has anyone found anything really really good out of this online dating stuff?

You're hot and don't look 18, but your profile does. You should say more about and about what you are looking for.