I just find it amusing that topics questioning women are dealt one way and topics dealing with men another. It was fun. Oh and I don't whine. It was a question. Lets not stupe to name calling, didn't like in the army and I won't take it here either.

Seems to me people jump to assumptions. I am one who believes a woman can do anything a man can do, including courting someone. Again, its 2009.

Kindred and Challenge, thanks for your opinions. They were great.

I agree, but I just find it very closed minded to say that a man must pursue a woman. So women will just sit idly by when they are interested in a man?

Guys, who is complaining. A simple question. I and several friends including several women had this discussion. I can say it was a little more mature than this. So everyones opinion is that a woman must be chased by a man. There is no reason for a woman to pursue a man.

No I can do it. Its just a real question. On most sites, the men out number women dramatically. Like I said, just wondering. I think any man would find it very flattering if a woman approached them.

intiative when interested in a person? Is it the chase or is the fact that a man is supposed to pursue? I am all about chivalry and all that, but man, its 2009. I like an independent woman that knows what she wants. If she wants it, she goes for it. I find it the same in bars and even on mingle. I wanted to know what others think. I am sure many will say that they show interest or will pursue a man, but I do seriously doubt it. I think its men pursuing women. Gets kind of old. Whats your take?

I live in the Washington D.C. area. It has to be one of the most diverse areas in the nation. Do you want Taco Bell or Ethiopian food? Take your choice and there are atleast two of every restaurants here, no matter what ethnic background. Not to mention that on any given day you can run into a redskin, capital, wizard or national. OH yeah, having the gov't near by helps as well!

In these economic times, people are resorting to crime. I hope everyone at the store is okay and I am glad you are as well.

a close conversation with the other stating their true feelings and the importance of myself in their life. That to me, was a tremendous gesture of love.

I think some men use the excuse of wanting a long term relationship to attract a women. Many men will say that most women are looking for a relationship, thats not necessarily true. All men as well are not looking for a one night stand. Its almost like bait, use and if it works then use it again. I also believe in honesty because the truth comes out one way or another and leaves someone hurt or betrayed.

Fantastic idea!!!! Well, lets get some dates together. I had a great time with a few friends yesterday, but hey!!! You can never have too many friends. What about this coming weekend and the next?

what about tomorrow 3/29/09, come on people, been back in the area for a few months, need to have some fun!!! I am ready to go! Someone pick a place, I am in the springfield/alexandria area!

appreciate the comments. I write poetry, doesn't always reflect my life though. I write about others as well.

That said,I think we are so much better off for having such a varied and rich tapestry of integrated "cultures."

This is a great statement! Thats exactly what America is. Whats more American than Chinese food? Just one example.

Thats a great question Bonnie. A friend and I have talked about this numerous times. Is culture sharing a basic background? As in language, food, dress?? Even within our own nations, east to west, north to south, the culture does differ. Oversee's you love seeing another American.

My life can be very fast paced at times. I had to get creative and fix fast to go meals. Try a piece of pita bread, some cheese ( whichever type you prefer ) add some sauce or none, pepperoni, some mushrooms, green peppers, any of your fav pizza toppings. Stick in the oven for about 7-10 minutes and you have a nice pita pizza!

I have only been on two other sites, so let me know how my profile looks! Much appreciated!

Bonny I agree a 100%. I like open dating sites, I have no preference when it comes to race, too many beautiful women to limit ones self!!

but what if she never comes up or that person never has the courage to get up!