Haha, like your smiley's!

Well, guess I'm bit odd, + I'm not that good as someone put it;o) I'm a bit lazy and relaxed about traditions and also a pragmatic guy. Add the fact I'm curious about if there are anyone in my line of thinking? I have quite high morals about cheating and haven't been unfaithful so far in my life.

Really what it comes down to in my opinion, is what experience and what kind of expectations one have of coming relationships, no matter friends or lovers.

I prefer to have good faith in other people, without being too blue eyed of course.

Another thing is that I rather take a beating than being too suspicious;o)

Peter

Hi to all wonderful females out there! Well ok, if males are reading also, we’re pretty awesome also, huh?

Now first some history:
I'��m a sort of an overdue male of 51 year. I'��ve been through three +4 year long relationships and one marriage of seven years. Not a great deal of points in the "��game" of life, huh? But anyway, now I want to know something from you females.

During the years before getting married, there were no questions asked if there were any papers confirming end of relationship. Now when wife and I separated 2010, I"��ve been meeting women who had interest in me until question of marriage and divorce papers to prove the end of relationship occurred.

When replying there is no divorce yet, most women walked away. Speaking with my female friends, they have the same opinion. Now most of these were/is highly educated women with scientific education and brilliant minds.

Now here'��s my 10 000 EURO question. (I will not pay until satisfactory answer occurs and I'll judge it;o)

What is it with the idea of a person that has a paper that says he is married is not trusted when saying relationship is over, when at the same time, there are so many married couples that go over the domestic borders all the time. No matter he, she or it;o)

It doesn't make any sense to me as I try to be rational and look at things in a logical way. Of course I can understand the betrayal of a trusted friend and companion turns the other way suddenly, but seriously!! I have been abandoned and betrayed also but have never got any idea of a paper making a difference of trust!!!

Please be patient with me and ask if you don'��t understand my ramblings!!

Peter