we're being slowly extinguished. women have proven that they don't need men to survive. and since so many men have donated to the "banks", women don't need a man for procreation. eventually, they will keep men all in cages just for our seed to replenish the "banks". genetic testing will be done on newborn males and only those with exceptional genes will be allowed to live(in cages for their seed). the rest will be terminated for their inferiority.

that's the future i see anyway.


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i could be interpreting this wrong and if so, please correct me. it seems that you're saying that because i'm not willing to date someone that i'm not attracted to (in this instance overweight women) that i don't deserve for any woman that i am attracted to to be interested in me.
is this a correct interpretation?


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i went it to work. nothing to do so i went home.


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made some adjustments to my scooter this afternoon. then i went for 110 mile ride. time well spent.


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yes, i'm picky. which is why i don't hold it against women when they exclude for the same thing. i'm not a complete hypocrite. however, i just read a profile on another site that basically said that overweight guys are living in a fantasy if they believe that they could somehow attract a slender woman. this has prompted me to check how other women feel about this idea.

personally, i'll never settle for less than what i want. if i can't have it i'll go without.

i just want to know, when you observe an overweight guy contemplating approaching a slender woman, what do you(women) think? or do you even take note of it?


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Do you feel that an overweight man isn't good enough for/doesn't deserve a slender woman? Or that he shouldn't even try? Or that he's dreaming if he thinks he could attract a slender woman?

Does an overweight man have a chance; or should he just settle for whoever is willing to be with him?





and i know that there are some funny overweight guys out there that women just love, like jack black or kevin james. but not every overweight guy is extremely funny, so let's ignore the exceptions.


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the chicken

who knows what cocks' been up in that hen. besides you know she's fertile. don't want no baby drama.


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ok, i'm going to take a break from my traditional type of response and give one that will hopefully be beneficial.

it would seem that your religion has been a big part of both of your lives without the two of you being in a relationship. as such, it should still be a big part of both of your lives if you are in a relationship. i believe that if the two of you take your religion seriously, then you shouldn't pursue any activity together that goes against your religion. as you are dating, always question if your next course of action is in line with your beliefs. if not, take a step back and discuss it with each other and go from there. it seems that your religion is your primary concern and therefore you shouldn't do anything that would strain your relationship with your god. if she's of the same mind, you two shouldn't have any major problems. and if things don't work out you can just say that your god didn't have it in his plan for the two of you to be together and just accept it.

i hope this helps. i'm not religious, but i know what it means to have principles and morals. and i know how it feels when you compromise those things for the sake of being with someone you're attracted to.


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what's wrong with craigslist?


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i'm on another site that rhymes with patch.com. i find it funny the number of women that are looking for "someone like" me, yet don't return any of my messages. apparently, "like" me still doesn't mean ME.


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i brought up this same concern a long time ago. apparently, since you aren't face to face with anybody you can be as rude as you want.

i think it's repulsive.


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Say what you want about the show Glee, but so much music has been brought to my attention because of that show.

i just got done listening to a group of songs by Fleetwood Mac; a group i had heard of and knew a few songs by, but not one i ever appreciated before. had they not done a complete episode with songs from the Rumours album, i would have never developed an affinity for this group.

i love it when i am exposed to music and i find a new appreciation for something i either was never knew about, or just never fully absorbed.

so this thread could either stay here because it is about music, or it could be moved to the movie/tv/books section because it's also about a tv show. either way, here's to music and anything that puts it out there to enlighten people.



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my heart just skipped a beat.

i wear pants to play hard to get.


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after you do, he'll never phone ya.



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it's totally a choice.


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wouldn't know. haven't met one yet that did.


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it annoys me as well. i just don't b|tch about it because i take short cuts too. and just like everyone else (even some in this very thread) i make mistakes that i don't even realize.

that being said, if i'm browsing profiles and there are a lot of misspellings or it reads like it was written by a 5 year old, i bypass it. i'm not the smartest man in the world, but i couldn't ever be with a woman who couldn't write/speak intelligibly.



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thanks for all of the useful info. i'll try to use it the next time i decide to attempt contact with the opposite gender.



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who do i have to kill to get one woman i'm attracted to to act this way toward me? even just for a little while.


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as i predicted, no response.

it sux to be ignored, but i'm reminded of Thin Lizzy's "The Boys Are Back In Town". "If that chick don't wanna know forget her."


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