I believe that everyone should get their just punishments, but as far as
spiritually, if someone can be saved and their sins corrected, the they
should be allowed to. Yes it is sad and does make me angery when ANY
abuses someone else. The scars are still scars no matter how old you
are. However, thanks be to God that if instead of focusing JUST on
punishment, we learn to embrace and reeducate a person, then maybe they
will get that humanity back in them or learn that they are more than
their debased instincts.

Hey Dizz...How's life? What have you been up to?

Nope. I am straight. But, I'd help him across the street.:P I'm a good
boy scout.

Hello JSH staff, mods., and feel searchers,

I am Longing4Love, most of the general information you can get from my
profile. I am here to discuss and in some cases argue (with respect and
without being too disruptive) points and ideas. I am here to learn,
receive wisdom,and gain understanding as well as pass those along when
and were I can.

I am direct, colorful, and unpolitical about my choices of words.
However, I try to let readers know when I am being sarastic or that I
said something a certain way to make a point. I am quick to point out
weaknesses, in the hopes to inspire a positive change, as well as I am
able to accept people who is willing to address my own weaknesses.

However, my untimate goal is to do here what I have not been able to do
in any other dating site...Find that one lady who I can got through this
world with from now until eternity.

If there are any other questions or one of you ladies want to hit me up.
Please feel free to ask. If you have a statement or remark, I am open
for them and I am more than able to see something from an opposing point
of view.

Thank you for this opportunity to join you.


Sincerely and Respectfully,
L4L

I am on another site that does both. And from person experience, one who
has had his rights provoked for "protesting" site policies in forums
because the mod. or staff wouldn't even address my emails. And as a
person who have seen good threads deleted because someone did not like
it is very backward when it comes to someone's ability to speak freely
and openingly.

Think of it like a large school where the popular people get to say and
do whatever they want and the less popular can't. This can lead to real
life hurt feelings, because a person is seeking serious answers and want
to share themselves with someone and we have the "veterans"=popular
people having reign over the other people.

My viewpoint is this...If you don't like what you are reading, you don't
have to post. You don't like the topic, pass it over. To me it does not
seem that hard to do.