This is a great point. Also, she was making lame excuses not to see you. If she was serious about seeing you again, why couldn't you take her to dinner and meet her father when he was in town? If she really wanted to see you, is there a reason that she couldn't take an hour break from her work to eat some food? I'm sure that she ate eventually, but why couldn't she do it with you instead of cancelling again?

As a woman, there are only 3 reasons that I ignore phone calls. 1) I don't know who it is. 2) I don't want to talk to the person right now. 3) I'm busy doing something and I'll call them back later. I figure if they need something, they'll leave a message or call back again. And if I don't have a second to call them back, there is no reason that I couldn't send a text saying "I'm busy. Call you back in 10" or something. She's obviously ditching you and now is trying to play the "wheeping widow" now that you've posted another ad.

Don't listen to her. She's being a ***** and you don't need that. Ignore her.