"Well, then, if I was kind to animals and gave candy to all the children, and loved my husband, would that get me into Heaven?" I asked them again.

Um, did I read that right? This guys got a husband?

"Able to complete a whole sentence without using profanity, Be professional. I'm well to earn and advance in the corporate field?"

Well, hell...wait, what?

I dont prefer to be called a stalker either. I know when the gig is up.

Stalker in Training, maybe?

Wow, Ms. IndnPrncs, I certainly didn't mean for any one person to take what I said personally. So, please accept my apologies if I have managed to offend you or anyone else.

My entire point was that we can't help the OP unless we do our best to keep our emotions out of it when we offer advice. That is all.

From reading the posts, it's obvious that David took a verbal beating for the words he used. He apologized for it and people are still continuing to talk about David instead of offering the OP any useful information. Of course, now that I'm thinking about the OP again (looks around) I haven't seen her in what? Three pages? (lol) Perhaps this thread has served it's purpose and is finished.

Wow, this thread went south in a hurry, didn't it? I've went over this about four times now and I honestly do not see how David was judging the OP.

I see that he was asking questions that would get her to think about the chain of events that led up to the relationship troubles she was having. It is all about the choices we make. Correct?

I mean, if I choose to sleep with every man that crosses my path...well, the odds of my catching some sort of an std will greatly increase, right? And, if I live with a man before getting married...the odds of the relationship getting into trouble and we go our separate ways increases too, doesn't it? (Seriously, if a person is married they are more likely to attempt to work things out than if they are just living together, at least that's what I've read anyways).

Another little thing I noticed about this thread is that things went from David making a comment about the OP 'allowing pre-marital sex' (I'm paraphrasing, forgive me please) to people thinking he called her some sort of slanderous name (ie harlot, whore, etc). Well, for goodness sakes people!

Please, put it into perspective here. The OP was asking for help in the opening statement. We can't help the gentleman she is with (ie educating him, etc.) but, we can at least attempt to help the OP ... providing the thread doesn't degenerate into some big, ugly argument (sigh).

I agree with the 'remove the pop n' pluck' sentence (or at least reword it) and you have a very nice start to a profile that might get you somewhere on here.

Try to post in the forums if you get a chance. People get to know who you are there and you will get more interest generated that way. Oh, and you may want to try posting a few more pictures that aren't quite so blurry, Darlin'. (Just a suggestion).

Welcome to Mingle! I'm wishing you the best!

((BIG HUGS))

I'd give you a kiss, Ra...but, I'm still contagious. (mutters something about her cold)

Yeah, sorry, my name isn't David but I've got some questions...if you don't mind.

You "take good care of him." Does he feel that you take good care of him?

He "refuses to help with anything or even take a shower." What do you mean by 'anything'? And, you have been involved with him for how long? Surely you knew long ago about his bathroom habits, right? So, why is it such a big deal now..after all this time?

He is apparently big on the football thing. Well, you could toss the TV's out but I would imagine he would find another locale to watch the games in. Or, you could be grateful that he's home...not in some other woman's bed...but, home with you.

If his nagging is getting to be too much for you, explain it to him. Or, (my own personal method) give him a taste of what nagging feels like. I am not saying go full tilt on the nagging, just spend a few days griping about every little thing you think he's doing wrong. Then ask him, "How does that feel?" I've had a lot of success with this method.

It seems to me that you feel you are not being given credit for everything you do for this gentleman. That's great but, silly question here, have you tried sitting him down and talking about this at all?

I agree with kc0003. I fall slower. Well, except for that one time...at band camp.

That was a forty foot stumble/fall down a concrete walkway and I tackled a plastic chair at the end of it. I can, (beaming proudly) however, honestly say that I never spilled a drop of either of the beers I was holding.

Aw, that's right Chelsea! Add, "Happy" to that list!

go out and have a good quit dinner then a good movie and then maybe some drinks

Yeah, that's right. Who needs dinner anyways? I prefer supper.

Well theres not much to tell.

Dang, and I was so ready to listen.

I make a mean campfire and cook over it.

As opposed to what?

Perfect Match

she must be first off hot and smart not a complete dumb ***


Um, wow. What a keeper! Too bad I'm a 'complete dumbass' though or I would snag this one.

Yup, she just went 'legal' on ya'. (lol)

Depends on what we are talking about.

Spoons? Too short would be the Doll House size spoon. I can't use those things at all (throws spoon in corner).

Hotdogs? Well, the average size is perfect I think. I mean, seriously, who can pack away a foot long for goodness sakes? That's just too much!

Buildings? Well, if I can't walk inside the dang thing, it's obviously too short. Thankfully, they don't usually make a building lower than 5'3" though.

Thank you so very much.

Sick.

If your friends were to describe you in words......what words would they use......okay I started it so me first.....


Beautiful
Intelligent
Silly
Goal Oriented
Driven
Strong
Non-judgmental
Forgiving

Those are some of the positive words people have used to describe me.