Same here, been there and done that, and got only lot of drama out of it.
Here what I think: usually when a person has been used, there are plenty of red flags for that person to see; the truth is that very often that person WANTS TO IGNORE THEM.
So, I think is the responsibility of any of us do not ignore the evidence, and frankly I am not going to get unwanted drama in my life again because of some silly having a crush on spme bad-boy!

What is is the oddest date you can remember?

Mine was a guy who wanted to walk in the park with me and then walked ahead and I had to run to keep up with him! LOL
If I asked him to slow down, he ignored me! LOL

After a while I started to walk, instead of almost running, and he disappeared in the threes.
I took the bus and met with some girlfriend at a bar next to my house.

After a couple of days he texted me again to ask me if I wanted to go somewhere else. LOL



You? Any Weirdos?