Well if you are sending emails and starting off by saying something to those dumb *** women like, OMG you are hot...yep they are going to just ignore you!
The last thing we look for is an email like that. To me that sends out many red flags...I thing oh wow there is a winner that wants to get laid and walk away.
Just try saying something like: Just want to say hello and I hope your day is going good. That might get you an answer back.
If you have been here for 2 years and only have 60 some posts then you need to come to the community rooms a little bit more and mingle!!!

I don't really believe in revenge, I believe they will get
what they have coming to them in the end.
All I have to say is Karma is a Bytch!!!

Do you really believe that? When it comes to the type of men we
want, we know exactly what we want. Just like...do you men know
what you want? If you think you can change her mind, I think you are
making a mistake! Why would you want her if she is IN love with
someone else?

You can not make someone love you, in fact IF you keep
talking to this girl..you will freak her out. If she is
with another guy, that is your answer. That is a good way
to get your a$$ kicked or shot!!
Find you a woman of your own because even if this woman
gave you a chance, she might end up back with the guy
she is with now!!! WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE...WE CAN'T HELP
IT!!!

Also Poetichustler...you need to finish your profile. It really does not take that long to write something about yourself. You are a nice looking guy and you need to write a little bit about yourself and what you are looking for.
Good luck in your search also

The profile would be good but take out all the information about your ex husband, that is no ones business until you get to know them.
Good luck in your search!!

Here is the thing, when I see someone chatting in the community..I might like what they said and check out their profile. I can't tell their age by their picture and when I get there they might be in their 20's and I think OMG he is that young.
I think maybe they can not tell our age by pictures only? I know I can't. Hey start complaining when you have someone 78 checking you out, I did the other day. I was thinking wow, he is Dad Material. LOL
What is funny is when you have an 18 year old kid writing you saying, you are hawt. LOL my youngest son is 18, so I just chuckle!!

Randyandy...your profile says that you are looking for a woman for an activity partner, so NOPE I would just pass your profile right up.
If you want sex just keep going to the bar, I am sure you can find it there.

Hey and welcome to your nightmare!!!
Enjoy

I have taught both my boys that emotions are natural. There
is nothing to be ashamed of when you cry. When my Dad passed,
my boys kept saying that they did not want anyone to see them
shed a tear. I tried to explain that I would rather let people
see you shed a tear then just sit there and smile. I explained
when you lose someone you love, it is alright to cry...men can
cry if something hurts them.
The one thing I know is I gave both my sons the right tools to be wonderful young men, what they do with them is up to them.

Why do you ask this question? Are you ashamed that you have
fallen for someone older then you? Where did you meet this
person? How much time do you spend with her?
Sorry for asking so many questions but I am trying to figure
you out. If you are asking us if it is wrong...you must think
it is?

It has been over 4 years ago, I just think I am out
of the dating phase. I am trying to work on my health
right now so this is all about ME!!

I never tell the guy but I give myself a 3 month rule. If
I feel comfortable after 3 months and feel like we are
going somewhere then it might happen, if not..it won't.

HONESTLY...I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD BE SO SHY, YOU
SHOULD JUST SAY HOW YOU REALLY FEEL.

That is a great question! I have a hard time with
love and lust actually. Infatuation..I would say
yes, my very first love. I thought I was so in love
with this guy that I would have done anything for
him. When we broke up I became a very sick young
lady and I could not handle losing him.
I had a lot of issues over him and now I look back
and think WTH was I thinking. I am so glad that I
told my parents what I was thinking and they got
me the help I needed.
YOUNG LOVE=STUPID LOVE!!!!

Thank you Edward, wait till your daughter has
you wrapped around her pinky...such a perfect
relationship!!!

I do believe in unconditional love BUT the world
is changing so much. I watch the news and see where
a parent killed their child. My question is how in the
he!! could a parent kill their child?
It seems like everyone is getting so mean, is it even
safe to bring children in this mean world anymore? I
truly think that IF I was young again and had to do things
over right now, I would not have kids.
Why would I want to bring a child in to this scary world to
where you can not even feel safe sending them outside
to play in your own yard.
Don't get me wrong, I love my children but I would hate to
see how this world is going to be once they start having kids
of their own.

I DO THINK THERE IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BUT I THINK PEOPLE ARE
GOING CRAZY DUE TO LACK OF COMMON SENSE AND NOT KNOWING HOW
TO BE A PARENT AND NOT KNOWING HOW TO RAISE THEIR CHILDREN!!!

Honestly Edward, I don't think you are going to have
any problems. When she turns old enough to talk about
those things, she is going to know that YOU are the
one person she can come to for anything. She will be
able to talk to you and not feel strange about it.
There is always a special bond between a daughter and
her daddy...no matter how old they are!!!

I sure do miss my Dad
I could talk to my dad about anything and I never felt
strange about it. My dad and I have such a good bond
and a close relationship that anything I said to him,
he would never share with anyone or laugh at me for
asking.
Just wait and see, I am sure that you will have a great
bond with your daughter also!!! You are the one person
she counts on the most!

Your profile is nice but you need to say what you
would like in a man.
It is just short and sweet and says nothing about
what you want.
Good Luck in your search.

I agree with the book, you will be shocked what
they have to give your kids. They talk about
everything that makes us feel uncomfortable.
Also, talk to her about drugs and bullying before
she starts junior high!! You will be shocked how
drugs are easy access!!!
I don't know what your religious beliefs are and it
is none of my business, but I raised my boys in the
church. They had a great younger pastor they could
talk to about anything when they went to teen night.
They actually loved it!!