Does any one else just feel emotionally like **** today?
I am truly starting to doubt love is real. To me it just seems that I am looking for forever, while the world around me is searching for the next best thing.

love is real but few if any achieve it in the state of perfection or it's purest from

most of us do the best we can

kinda like math...some are better at it than others

welcome to mingle

I can def understand that..its very hard to find someone that wants the same thing you do..a lot of people, especially on these types of sites are just looking for one thing..can get real frustrated trying to find someone who isnt that you click with

LOl Ive been a Mingle member for 3 or more years LOL but ty. I dnk I'm just feeling down now. The whole time I've been on this site, In real life I havnt even had a woman show interest at all. Hell I've even wondered if I was just ugly, evaluated my personality... I mean yea Im sarcastic, but I am not mean, I dont cross certain lines. I try to be respectful and kind. But the dumb *** women just keep going for the ripped *** oles who just look at them like sex dolls. Dont get me wrong I like my sex, but jesus I know a few of them dont even care about there women. hell two off the top of my head are actively cheating on there wives with 2 other women at a time.

where do you find these people?

how do you know there was know interest?

did u take time to get to know any women as friends? women are people...we arent an activity lol

take some time without ulterior agenda to get to know us as friends & find women who share some of your interests rather than jsut focusing on whether someone is hot....

Well part of the problem is where I am at. Theres not really any women my age who are single. I am sorry i already have enough friends, I want a relationship. I am a firm believer men and women can not remain just friends, believe me I've seen this... ONE is always secretly into the other even if its never spoken or shown!

I totally agree!

I think friendship is the best start tho if u want a lasting relationship....doesn't mean that friends can't "fool around" a little tho :)

what if im interested in you

You may think I'm just talking crap, but I found that hanging with people from the comedy circuit, really helps cheer me up. I am quite a happy person anyway, but there was just something about being around comedic people. I even read that funny types, are more successfull at surviving heartbreak, illness, divorce. And I guess you can see why. Because they are constantly having laugh's. I like nothing more than a good clowning around (not in a dodgy sense. lol).

laughter is a good thing

I laugh at my own self eveyday :)

people are so serious , intent, wannbe a wannabe

when really

a good relaxinggiggle is the soul of salvation :)

I have to wonder....dude....are you going after chicks? You know....making the move? Or are you sitting there twiddling your thumbs, or looking down to your smartphone and playing Angry Birds while available chick....after available chick passes by? Just wondering dude....cause love is out there.

Then get "ripped" yourself and then you can have that luxury. I have noticed that I get more attention from the girls around me when I lost a bunch of weight, surely putting on muscle mass would work out just as well. Then when girls are falling all over you, let's see if you don't take the same advantage of them as you have seen others in that position do. With the way you see women as materialistic things to covet, I doubt you wont though.

oh pish posh just club one and take her home....that's what my last BF did

Haha! I think you could be right

Someone mentioned duct tape and chloroform too!!!

that would be me....

bahahahah

I guess I didn't provid enough resistance to warrant those...lol

(you do know I am joking, I assume)

Old School!!!