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Fri 11/13/09 02:34 PM

I have never had a problem with adapting in any social environment! I don't give people a choice to like or not like me. i generally find people that state things like you just did are usually the problem and not the society around them as a whole. yes people are rude and blah blah blah, but i pay them no mind and cant even let it bother me if i tried! i love to out wit them too much! I do get irritated by peoples ignorance though but not too often!
good for you but when your a single mom in a new place where you don't have any family or friends it can and does get daunting at times even tho i am a strong character and usually pass these things of, the fact is I'm in a very racist part of the country on my own and i have a right to get upset about it when my kids could grow up thinking they shouldn't of been born the colour they are because people just don't like it. its stupid and i wont stand for it regardless.

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Fri 11/13/09 01:57 PM
not everyone here is racist but a lot are and its them that give everyone a bad name here. but im not going to walk around like i am ashamed of who and what we are. i hold my head up high because i am proud of who i am and i wont be letting a bunch of racist ignorants tell me any different. and maybe i will find a man here maybe not but at least my kids are happy and thats the main thing. girl power yay :banana:

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Fri 11/13/09 01:25 PM


right here goes... i moved to doncater not long ago and still yet to make friends here. i see myself as a nice person easy to get on with funny and ready to help in any situation but all i have encounterd here is bitchy playground moms and a few cases of racism. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. i love this place to bits but bloody hell. has anyone else gone through this also? wow i needed that i feel much better frustrated rant rant :smile:

The other moms probably see you as a threat....


why would that be

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Fri 11/13/09 01:21 PM


right here goes... i moved to doncater not long ago and still yet to make friends here. i see myself as a nice person easy to get on with funny and ready to help in any situation but all i have encounterd here is bitchy playground moms and a few cases of racism. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. i love this place to bits but bloody hell. has anyone else gone through this also? wow i needed that i feel much better frustrated rant rant :smile:


Exactly what do you love about it? The scenery?huh
laugh there are lovely places here that you dont get in brum. plus its not just donny its south yorkshire in general.

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Fri 11/13/09 09:37 AM


Go shave all there heads, and tell them that if they don't start being nice to you, that you will make shaving there heads a weekly ritual.laugh laugh


I'm thinking some might already have skinheads! :wink: And OP, there are good people everywhere...good luck in finding those around you! flowerforyou
you are so not wrong laugh im really hoping that those genuinly good people will start popping up soon.

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Fri 11/13/09 09:35 AM

Go shave all there heads, and tell them that if they don't start being nice to you, that you will make shaving there heads a weekly ritual.laugh laugh
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Fri 11/13/09 09:22 AM

I have never gotten along with the other mommies...and seem to be different in my community. Screw em...their attitudes about you have nothing to do with you, just their need to be b!tchy and racist..
i know but it still gets me down its all the worst because in birmingham its so mixed here i feel a little isolated especially because im a billy no mates at the minute. also im into white men but because a lot of people here are racist and have no problem saying so, im starting to get the feeling that while im here i could be single for years to come. its funny because my son has only had one comment said to him which the school nipped in the bud (there good like that) but he has made loads of friends of different colours and he is happy i think now only time will tell on that one.

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Fri 11/13/09 09:13 AM

Im so sorry flowerforyou
ahh thanks happy

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Fri 11/13/09 09:02 AM
right here goes... i moved to doncater not long ago and still yet to make friends here. i see myself as a nice person easy to get on with funny and ready to help in any situation but all i have encounterd here is bitchy playground moms and a few cases of racism. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. i love this place to bits but bloody hell. has anyone else gone through this also? wow i needed that i feel much better frustrated rant rant :smile:

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Thu 11/12/09 03:22 PM
i have 2 spiders on my shoulder i got them because i had a really bad phobia but got over it. i now like them so i guess its just a reminder really bigsmile

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Wed 11/11/09 04:40 AM
yes good luck its hard going but the genuine people always get the girl or the guy flowerforyou

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Tue 11/10/09 03:23 PM




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Tue 11/10/09 02:15 PM


everyone is saying yes but how many of you would take that partner home to "meet the parents" !!!!!

No problem with it, my parents would actually probably be ecstatic about it
really shocked

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Tue 11/10/09 02:06 PM
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everyone is saying yes but how many of you would take that partner home to "meet the parents" !!!!!


My parents are used to my polka-dotted men, they don't give a chit now.
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Tue 11/10/09 02:02 PM
everyone is saying yes but how many of you would take that partner home to "meet the parents" !!!!!

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Tue 11/10/09 01:54 PM




i only ever date white men. its a matter of what you like or dont like i dont see any problem with it bigsmile

:wink:
back at ya drinks :smile:

of course! you couldn't only be across the country...you had to be IN another country...distance sucksgrumblelaugh
i was thinking the exact thing sad

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Tue 11/10/09 01:44 PM


i only ever date white men. its a matter of what you like or dont like i dont see any problem with it bigsmile

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back at ya drinks :smile:

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Tue 11/10/09 01:32 PM
i only ever date white men. its a matter of what you like or dont like i dont see any problem with it bigsmile

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Tue 11/10/09 01:16 PM

a bunny is running thew the woods and he finds a giraffe rolling a joint and the bunny askes him y he is doing it and says y dont u no thats bad for u y dont u come running with me you will feel much better so the giraffe agrees to go running, they run untill they find a hippo a bout to snort a line of coke and the bunny says y do u do that hippo dont u no that its bad for u y dont u come running with us u will feel much better so the hippo says ya y not, they run untill they find a lion ready to shoot up some haroin and the bunny says y do u do that lion dont u no its bad for u? so the lion looks at the needle an then the bunny puts the needle down and grabs the bunny and starts to beat the crap out of him, the giraffe and hippo stand there horrofide as the lion is giveing it to the bunny. the hippo asks the lion y he hurt the bunny and that he was only looking out for your helth and the lion replys that every time that little bunny gets hopped up on extecy he makes me go running thew the woods with him
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Tue 11/10/09 12:58 PM


right here goes i keep picking men who seem to be completely normal , lovely, sane, happy individuals but then after a few hours of talking i find that there the complete opposite. for instance i started talking to someone and as usual after a few hours of talking he told me something wierd about him and his dog...like i must seem like the kind of person who finds that normal. this is not just with the odd one, every man i speak to has this wierd thing going on. so my question is how do i pick the right ones and is there a man for everyone and me or is it a load of old pollocks. sad


Bollocks?

Anyway, mathmatically there ISN'T someone for everyone...the equation would be off given population and gender. That said, everyone has a quirk, regardless of how "normal" they seem...further, it is my opinion that there is no real "normal" as the definition differs from person to person.

Hell, embrace being single...at least you aren't in a worthless relationship that is going nowhere from the get-go. You could be worse off.smokin
[/quote true very true. ive done the single thing and its boring i dont mind a man with quirks actually i really dont mind a man with quirks but there is a limit lol, and dogs peanut butter and dressing up in womens clothes "just for the fun of it, all the time but just for the fun of it" is where i draw the line rofl rofl ill