I can easily imagine a night of passion (or lust, if you prefer) although I'd be disappointed if that's all it was.
I can't ever imagine paying for sex though.

Well..to be quite honest.

Paid sex VS One night Stand?

As for paid sex, it's pretty evident on what's on each others mind, the question in the end would be if it was worth the time, and money.
A one night stand obviously leads to the same intention sexually, yet, once again, the question remains, was it worth the time and effort, meaning some one night stands leaves a person thinking, maybe it would've been better to just pay for it.


In this life we live, we sometimes don't get what we pay or ask for.

well I'm allowed to express my opinion.. in the topic I start...lol..
... and I'm running around your house naked right now..lol... good thing you can't see me right..lmao

I wonder who that man is...
quote me well blondey, I said "they do not exist and IF they exist, they find what they're looking for before getting to you"
That means that... yeah ok maybe there are 2 or 3 on this planet but if they really exist it does not take more than 5 minutes to find someone, so a man should be very very lucky to be in exactly that place in those 5 minutes.
It's like the lottery, someone really wins, but not you (nor me!)

Getting to the second point... we are still debating if on a date the man should pay and you really want to talk about sexual freedom for women???
Come on, don't be offended but I find it ridiculous. At least in general.
I don't have a problem with women having sexual freedom, but actually most women do have problems, they are the first to judge women and to feel 'in danger' because "their men" could quite easily fall in the net!

and to be honest, in case you haven't noticed, sexual freedom has gone a lot down in the last 20-30 years. From official statistics for instance, in France now the number of bikini sold has passed the number of topless. I tell you that when I lived in France, to see French women not in topless on the beach was a rarity, now it's over 50%
It's not the 70s I'm afraid...

No Picture of his interest??? That would be a red alert for me.
And if she tells him that she is beautiful and she knows this why???
Maybe she needs to take a crappy selfie at least one so he can be the judge of her beauty for himself.

I personally wouldn't do this for long if I was interested in said person romantically. IF I wasn't it wouldn't matter to me. But if I am crushing on someone I would want to see what I am crushing on.

I absolutely hate having my picture taken.. I avoid it at all costs always have.. But I have sent private pictures to my guy that aren't on here.

I mean I'm only 46 and pretty much given up. But you do you. If you feel you aren't old enough then go out and date

I would tend to agree, something is a miss

.. I have a friend.. .lol

.. who is seeing someone online.
my friend.. ..
shares a lot of pictures and videos
. with his new online pen pal !!shall we say.. pictures of their everyday lifes.
. ... but my friend does not receive a lot of pictures back....
.. that is, his pen pal sends.. scenic pictures... that are really quite beautiful.. but he's only seen one picture, of his new friend and what she looks like.... and no not naughty pictures....lol.... so when I
Was... talking to my friend.. .. I said well!! then how do you know..
. that this person is really who they say they are...... he says she says. she is shy...... she often says how beautiful she is..... and he believes her.
... but in the back of his mind..
. he is worried because he has not really seen a picture of her.... except for one......


.. so my question is this..

. how long do you keep sharing with someone.... and they are not sharing back... how long do you keep sharing... before you stop...

.. is this a question of him being scammed.?..
.. or do some people really. have a hard time sharing photos of them self.s.... I can understand this, I do not like the way I look in pictures myself...
.. but is asking for one selfie too much to ask...... just to establish trust I suppose..... proof of life I guess..


and I'm not talking about myself here are anyone I know...

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so I'm must be a rookie because I have always had sex in my life. . in terms of paid sex, where I live illegal. how do I find this

I wana know what people think about it which one is better

its so unfair that people call out women as whores for seeking sex while men do that all the time

I've heard guys say, "There's the ones you take to bed", and then "There's the ones you take home to mother".

I'm interested in seeing what the men here on Mingle say.