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Just a thought. If you are coming across too strong as assuming you are already engaged to marry some time soon... The chap, may not be that into you to make such a serious commitment. If he is going to feel trapped and unready, any pressure will make him run the other way... All I feel now is, if he qestioned you on what you mentioned to him, he is either looking at your motive, feel what you asked was to early to discuss, as there is no given commitment to the relationship. Remember you both are still strangers in ways, a few dates does not neassarily mean love rather being lust... AND.... for goodness sake make sure you both take and use protection... AND.... for goodness sake make sure you both take and use protection...-------i will cancel my plans for the weekend trip. i am in no way going with that kind of misunderstanding |
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Massage
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okay- i placed an ad on CL for a massage everyone said no one will come give you one w/o expecting something in return! i just had an awesome 1 1/2 hour deep tissue FREE massage from a very sweet, cute guy who expected and got nothing in return (never attempted to be inappropriate) and stated he would be glad to do it again u are such a sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Massage
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okay- i placed an ad on CL for a massage everyone said no one will come give you one w/o expecting something in return! i just had an awesome 1 1/2 hour deep tissue FREE massage from a very sweet, cute guy who expected and got nothing in return (never attempted to be inappropriate) and stated he would be glad to do it again You placed an ad asking for a free massage? Or were you bartering some service of your own (no, I"m not talking sex)? This confuses me. i placed an ad for a massage- no sex, nothing sexual- just need the massage....no bartering of anything |
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Massage
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I would so give you a massage if I were there... I attend massage parties now and then that are non sexual and they are great! $20.00 and they last four hours of giving and receiving massages! I am learning many techniques from the massage therapists in attendance and so far nobody has complained about my techniques either. About CL... that is a very scary place to try to hook up for something like that from a stranger... Please be careful... But on a more pleasant note about CL, I met a lovely lady there a few weeks ago and we are having a wonderful time! Surprised me and she! She had placed an ad for friends with no strings or expectations and I sent her an e-mail asking her to be very careful and we ended up dating. So there are some nice people on there, but a TON of not so nice people there too. Happy massage-ing! thank you for both the compliment and concerns luv my friends on mingle! |
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opinions needed
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Hey Joyce I agree with the following 1. You apologized for what I'm not sure, but okay. 2. He's making a mountain out of a mole hill. 3. He sounds uptight 4. If your questioning the whole thing, I would go with your instincts and step back. "thinking were not "right" for each other" 5. He should have been happy that your were comfortable enough to ask, share, and care about something like that. Well thats my input thank you i appreciate your opinion |
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Way too Serious
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seems to be a different group of ppl
before we were great friends i came into the community to be with friends |
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Massage
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craigslist
online- this guy was hard to find, can not imagine the emails i had to shift through |
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opinions needed
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I feel so dirty, hell the guy should be happy your open like that. okay--- i thought all guys liked that silly me- and why does that mean you are not serious about a long term relationship? i want to have a long term relationship where we can have an awesome sex life and never be bored in the bedroom! |
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opinions needed
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i am thinking that maybe we are not "right" for each other because if certain things are an issue or misunderstanding from the get go........
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Massage
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okay- i placed an ad on CL for a massage
everyone said no one will come give you one w/o expecting something in return! i just had an awesome 1 1/2 hour deep tissue FREE massage from a very sweet, cute guy who expected and got nothing in return (never attempted to be inappropriate) and stated he would be glad to do it again |
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opinions needed
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You asked a question about sex and he questioned your motives? Call the guy and talk to him. i did, we have talked several times after.....he can not get (understand) why i would even ask that and still questions what i really want. i said i am sorry...all things happen for a reason, this to get my feet planted and my head out of the clouds---- move at a slower pace, maybe not meet again at the ranch |
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opinions needed
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i met a nice guy on my trip to houston
we decided to meet again 1/2 between austin and houston @ his parents ranch we have been texting back and forth, talking on the tele decided on a date in a couple weeks the subject about "making luv" under the stars came up both agree that might happen because i felt there would be a long term ending to this anyway to make a long story stort i texted him this: do you talk during? dirty? just wanted to find out his likes/dislikes...did not want to do something stupid if he did not like it well, he took it as unsure of what my real intentions are.....a fling or a long term relationship... comments/opinions: |
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how many do you read?
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mutual match
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well, who knows if it will go anywhere
there is distance however- nice to know that it can work |
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mutual match
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had a match from houston recently-- odd enough, my children's aunt passed away and the funeral was Sunday in houston i did meet him for dinner and we hit it off, we have since talked on the telephone and plan to meet again if anything i hope to be friends mutual match works after all you live in houston? |
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mutual match
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had a match from houston recently--
odd enough, my children's aunt passed away and the funeral was Sunday in houston i did meet him for dinner and we hit it off, we have since talked on the telephone and plan to meet again if anything i hope to be friends mutual match works after all |
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Hey Everyone
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thing for you to do now Logan is to join in some of the community topics
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Hey Everyone
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Logan is my oldest son
He lives in Fort Worth I suggested he try Mingle2 |
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Do you find it difficult?
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it is very difficult
sometimes people you think you can trust let you down |
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Hey Everyone
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Everyone say hi to Logan----
<<<<logan2009>>>>>> |
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