i'm sorry to say this but many men here who claim to be widowers in their profiles are suspect.please ladies take note . they are so eager to get your personal contacts, write very long messages on first encounters,and are ready to say all about themselves even when you dont show any interest.and in most cases they have very nice pictures, they know what many women like, eg pictures of well built men, posing with posh cars in nice environments.please take your time to read people'e profiles. And in most cases they keep using the same profile with different pictures.I feel sorry for the genuine widowers here and i really dont mean to judge .

I've met a couple of women on here recently that said that they weren't looking for a relationship. One said that the last two guys that she was with had wanted her to move in with them and that was when she ended it with them. Sometimes it's people that are happy with their lives the way that it is but they do want a sex life as well with a regular partner. Others don't want or can't handle getting too emotionally involved because they are not happy and are working through "issues", or have too many problems to deal with and they want friendship, support and "fun". Those are the ones that you have to look out for. They get you to care about them because a "nice" person will and won't just want to use them or abuse them.

Not a "nice guy" rant. Just saying that you should think about what you're getting yourself into.

its just sleeping,, my son wasn't comfortable sleeping alone until about 7 or 8 and my daughter seems to be on the same track,,,


if you are determined though, to have her in her own room , you just have to do the work and keep putting her there until she gets tired of fighting it,,,maybe use positive reinforcement and get REALLY EXCITED when she wakes up in her room,,,,


sometimes psychology is helpful, when my daughter didn't want to give up the pacifier after her first birthday, we used new years eve , when all the fireworks and parties were gonna happen

we took her to the park where the fireworks were visible and people were laying out, and we told her it was a going away party for the pacifiers. We tied them all to balloons and we set them off at the end of the countdown and during the fireworks, worked like a charm,, when she slept that night, she was saying 'wow' in her sleep,,lol

just get creative, sometimes you can find good ideas on parenting sites too,,