Hey everyone this is my first post here.

For about two years now I've been looking for some dating and hopefully an actual relationship...but nothing has really worked out. Some of it is circumstance, some was timing, and I definitely screwed up more than my fair share.

So I took a little time off from the dating scene, everything seems to be fine... except now one of my friends is dating this new girl. I don't mind it I'm genuinely happy for him, but to be quite honest he's not the most well kept or fit.

Now I'm not saying I'm a casanova or a brad pitt. I'm on the heavier side but I do what I can to lose and not gain any more weight. I feel what I lack in the visual department I possess leaps and bounds more in personality and wit.

But if I don't have much or anything to look at do I even stand a chance to find a relationship? Even with a decent personality?