Indeed ;)

Yeah she's smokin' and I am not joking.

If you are talking to me then I am quite an adaptable person and can change according to my environment if need be but at the end of the day it's all about being yourself. The right person will love you for who you truly are and you haven't got to worry about flirting and all that stuff just be you an go with the flow and the rest will follow. :)

Those are highly sort after traits and you should be very proud. I am currently in a relationship at the moment with a girl who has those exact qualities you have. They are absolutely intoxicating and highly desirable from my point of view.

A nice, caring, loving, polite, humble, sweet shy girl.

What more can a guy ask for.

Your comment made my night. Thank you so much, that's very thoughtful of you. :)

Exactly. The real me comes through a lot more accurately via online means. I totally understand.

HAHAHAHA

I'm glad I don't have to wear a uniform for my current job... a door man.

Oh wait....

Thank you man you're welcome bro.

Well let's start something a little less direct in regards to flirting. That's probably a little too obvious and direct. You perhaps might like to create an air of mystery within your initial flirtation post with someone you just met.

Although it is highly appreciated and I thank you for such a positive comment you don't want to come across as if you are overly into that person to the point where the ball is in their court and they have the 'power' so to speak with your initial interaction.

:)

Basically it all exists but what do you prefer. Just choose a girl you prefer and forget about the ones you don't. It's all good to be aware of the ones you don't prefer but constantly focussing on them in such a way will only make you see them a lot more often than you would prefer.

If you're looking for the right girl just know the right one will come along when the time is right.

That's the point... from your perspective. I'm not saying it's wrong or not true because it is your truth based on your perspective. You can stop feeding this belief so it isn't so prominent within your life and then and just choose what you prefer. You know this isn't the case that all girls are like this just a lot that you have seen because of your beliefs.

Everywhere I go on this site you are just somehow right behind me!

We are all teachers and learners remember young lady. Everyone has something different to offer from their very own unique perspective.

:)

You just said it yourself... beliefs... and beliefs create your reality .

If the belief(s) no longer serve why are you still holding on to them. Obviously you feel they are serving to buy into this statement of what you just made regarding young women. I totally understand where you are coming from though man. It's the story of my life lol.

Mega issues growing up in regards to this and still working through things.

A lot of it is cultural programming to be honest. The television certainly does not help.

I think a lot of young women are just lost in life and learning just like the rest of us.

I have compassion for the way they behave now and just feel they know no better poor dears.

Now that would be telling young lady.. ;)

And besides it's far to explicit to even begin to talk about it on a public forum. I think me must continue this conversation somewhere a little more private.

Remember private messages are there for a reason.

Your're so modest... Go on give it a whirl I dare you!

I wouldn't say no ;)

Women get to a certain age and they turn into some almost unrecognisable from their previous years as a young lady.

Be gentile ladies ;)