A divorce doesn't neccessarily mean that the child can't still have both it's parents in their life. I'm divorced and my children lives every second week with their father (12 minutes walk from where I live). They know they can always call or come over, even if it's the 'wrong' week. And they definitly have the love of both me and their father. But both of us also had our children as top priority through the diverse and decided that the best would be for them to still have both of us, even if we didn't get along enough to stay together.