Lots of interesting opinions on this thread.

I don't drink, never have, made the decision at a young age. I'm 38 now and still have never had any alcohol. But that's just me. I don't pass judgment on others who do drink because my decision was just mine.

I do hang out in the bars sometimes, but it's to see bands and hang out with friends, not to consume alcohol. If I could go see live music without ever setting foot in a bar, I would. But that's where the music typically is, so, that's where I go.

When I tell people I don't drink, they usually say, "Really? NEver? NEVER? Not even on your 21st birthday or a glass of wine with dinner? REally?" And then I say, "Yes, really." And that's the end of the conversation. Or they may ask how come I don't drink. I have my reasons but they are my reasons, so, I just say, "I just don't, that's all." That usually satisfies the curiosity of most people I've encountered.

Maybe it's because of the way you make them feel...

This is an interesting point. It's as if people are chasing the non-drinker.

People communicate in only 5 ways. They demonstrate higher value, they demonstrate lower value, they indicate interest, they indicate disinterest and they test for compliance.

Offering someone a drink, or food or whatever is an attempt to demonstrate high value. But, by indicating disinterest, that value is lowered and they feel a need to bring their value up again. So, they push and test for compliance. Maybe the can MAKE you drink.

It's not just alcohol, it's anything. Cigarettes, pot, even stuff like food or energy drinks. People have a hard time with "No thanks, not interested".

you will drink one day

Also, telling them that "I never drink alcohol before and never will.." sounds a bit like the beginning of an attitude or sermon against the evils of drinking. So they want to bring you down because they feel you think you are making better choices than they are, so you must feel superior to them.

What is the longest you have gone without being in a relationship?