How can you expect someone to love you or for you to love someone if you don't love yourself

I'm technically old school too, I was raised that way, my parents were both raised that way. I however am open minded. Open minded to what though? Don't get me wrong, I believe that women and their opinions are important and valid. I believe you should vote, be given equal human rights. I sincerely hope that Hillary Clinton should be our next President. I'm going to be criticized for that and I dont give a damn. That'smy honest opinion.
I haven't seen an even treatment of men and women, whites blacks or other minorities. What I have witnessed is reversed. sexism. I know you're still fighting for equal pay, but starting with the most recent recession many men lost their jobs for exactly that reason. A woman does the same job for less money the corporation doesn't collapse we all win right? The acquisition of the job was either a new hire or a significant raise for the woman who gets the job everybody is happy, yes? Aren't we forgetting something here?

Sorry this is way off topic of my discussion. I do understand your opinions on equality of the job market. But right now I want to understand about is current gender roles in relationships. thanks