OK here I go ..... in no way do I want to upset anyone so please those zealots that will lambaste me please do think before you jump down my throat.

All I want is safe sex aka
no: drama, commitment, future, family involvement, prostitution c/w passion and lust. Just plain pleasure. Yes women and men want the same thing. So I'll leave it at that and will add just because my wife doesn't want sex with me doesn't mean I don't want sex. LMK if your interested and live in the Ottawa area you know what to do.